I Am The Girl Who Loves Home

I Am The Girl Who Loves Home

And I live on campus at college.

I love home. I always have and I always will. Now, I am not talking about the difference between home and house and all that nonsense. My home is my house and I love it. It is where my parents are, where my sister sometimes is, and where I grew up and have lived all my life. When I was a college freshman, I was so excited to live on campus at my university. I wasn’t the type of kid who wanted to get away from home. I just liked that everything was a walk away since I didn’t have a car or even license for that matter. I think going home my first weekend of college showed that I didn’t just want to get away from my parents.

Fast forward to three years later: I didn’t know that I could love home any more than I already did. Now you may think, "Wow! No wonder. You are about to graduate college. Adulting would most definitely make you love home more because you are going to have to start your life." But I have always loved home (and I am going to grad school). My parents were shocked when I came home for only three weekends last semester. This semester is a different story. As much as I love being able to walk to Starbucks when I want to, I would rather be at home. I am just over dorm living and college campus life. I have never been one for going out, rebelling against my parents, or anything that would be encouraged by living at school. I just love being at home with my parents. My favorite kind of nights are the nights where I stay up way too late watching “American Ninja Warrior” re-runs or get a ton of movies from the library and watch them with my mom. I never really had that head-butting stage where I don’t get along with my mom. I have always talked to her about EVERYTHING and always spent weekends with her.

So maybe this has been me explaining that my mother is my best friend and I never hated her. But seriously…I love her. While my sister spent her teen years hanging with friends and going to sleepovers, I truly spent my weekends with my mother (while my sister was a teen and when I was a teen as well). I have no regrets. So as I sit here writing this at 2:30 a.m. when I should actually be sleeping so I can get up for my 10:20 class tomorrow, I am truly wishing I was in my bed at home watching movies with my mom. I love home so much! I am blessed by God with a great home and I will definitely spend a ton of time in it. Maybe home is a feeling and not a place for some, but for me, it is definitely a place with the people I love. I am the girl who loves home and will not apologize for it!

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I Blame My Dad For My High Expectations

Dad, it's all your fault.

I always tell my dad that no matter who I date, he's always my number one guy. Sometimes I say it as more of a routine thing. However, the meaning behind it is all too real. For as long as I can remember my dad has been my one true love, and it's going to be hard to find someone who can top him.

My dad loves me when I am difficult. He knows how to keep the perfect distance on the days when I'm in a mood, how to hold me on the days that are tough, and how to stand by me on the days that are good.

He listens to me rant for hours over people, my days at school, or the episode of 'Grey's Anatomy' I watched that night and never once loses interest.

He picks on me about my hair, outfit, shoes, and everything else after spending hours to get ready only to end by telling me, “You look good." And I know he means it.

He holds the door for me, carries my bags for me, and always buys my food. He goes out of his way to make me smile when he sees that I'm upset. He calls me randomly during the day to see how I'm doing and how my day is going and drops everything to answer the phone when I call.

When it comes to other people, my dad has a heart of gold. He will do anything for anyone, even his worst enemy. He will smile at strangers and compliment people he barely knows. He will strike up a conversation with anyone, even if it means going way out of his way, and he will always put himself last.

My dad also knows when to give tough love. He knows how to make me respect him without having to ask for it or enforce it. He knows how to make me want to be a better person just to make him proud. He has molded me into who I am today without ever pushing me too hard. He knew the exact times I needed to be reminded who I was.

Dad, you have my respect, trust, but most of all my heart. You have impacted my life most of all, and for that, I can never repay you. Without you, I wouldn't know what I to look for when I finally begin to search for who I want to spend the rest of my life with, but it might take some time to find someone who measures up to you.

To my future husband, I'm sorry. You have some huge shoes to fill, and most of all, I hope you can cook.

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5 Ways To Tackle Credit Overload In College As A Sleep-Deprived Senior

So you think you can take 19 credits. Well, you can!


So you were ambitious and went into credit overload this semester. Cheers to you! You're hopefully right on track to graduate, if not ahead. Regardless of the reason you chose to bog yourself down with more work than others, here are some tips I've come up with along the way for a successful semester.

1. Make a daily to-do list for each class.

Every day I make a list of all of my classes and what is upcoming for each class. That includes assigned reading, homework and upcoming quizzes and tests. This allows me to visually plan what is on my plate for each day. I am also far less likely to forget an assignment if I continuously write it down until I complete it.

2. Prioritize these items!

Rank the items you just listed to your highest priority (due today or tomorrow) to least priority (due a few weeks from now). This allows you to manage your time and get what you need to get done on time.

3. Try to do your homework on the day it is assigned.

I understand that this is obviously easier said than done. But, one of my professors gave my class this advice in my very first semester of college, and I have remembered it and cherished that advice ever since.

If you are assigned homework on Monday in a class that meets Monday, Wednesday and Friday, it is much better to get it out of the way on Monday afternoon rather than wait until Tuesday night (or Wednesday morning, if you're good at procrastinating). This also lessens your workload on weekends.

4. Etch out time every day to spend in the library.

I never used to believe it when people said you do better work in the library because at home you have more freedom and are distracted. Now that I am in my senior year of college, I have finally found that to be true. I wish I realized that sooner. Now I spend at least three hours a day in the campus library three days a week. If you want to spread it out to one hour a day, that's fine, too. Find a schedule that works for you.

5. Keep your eye on the prize.

My university has a web page with a countdown to graduation. I keep it bookmarked on my laptop. When I am feeling unmotivated, I click the link and remind myself of how many days there are until graduation. If your university doesn't have this feature, you can make your own graduation countdown on a variety of countdown websites. Find something tangible to focus on achieving. You can do this!

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