To the Girl Who Is Afraid to Chase Her Dreams

To the Girl Who Is Afraid to Chase Her Dreams

You can do this. Don't let them say different.

You've always put others first. You always do anything asked of you. You feel so guilty saying no. But there comes a time when even that doesn't bring a smile to your face anymore. When even doing all the things to make everyone else smile and happy and proud just takes the joy from your life. You feel like it isn't okay to tell people no. That if you do you will disappoint them; that they won't love you anymore. The fear that stems from past situations, past experiences, in which that was the case. But, my dear, there comes a time when you have to put you first. A time where you have to start saying no to others, and yes to yourself.

Where do you want to go in life? Doctor? Lawyer? Author? Preacher? Go. Do it. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do it. Don't let anyone make you feel like your dreams aren't worth chasing after, because they are. It's okay to tell someone you can't do something for them if it's going to interfere with your dreams. It's okay to say "not right now". It's okay to just not be able to do it. You cannot keep putting others first. Because you, and your dreams, matter too.

I know it isn't easy; I know the anxiety is overwhelming. There will be nights that you will cry yourself to sleep because you told Susie no. Nights where you are so scared to try and chase your dreams that you seriously consider giving up and going back to where everyone else needs you. There will be days that you walk through life feeling like you can't do anything. But that is all part of starting out; part of taking that step out in faith. Following your dreams isn't easy, that's part of the reason most people don't follow through with it.

People may call it impossible. That you will never be able to achieve that dream. But you know what that is? It's a challenge. A challenge to prove them wrong. And don't back away from the challenge. Use it as a motivator. Use it to keep going. Use it, to remind yourself, that you really can do this. Contrary to what other people may think.

Make yourself happy. Don't just follow your dreams, but chase them. Run after them. Don't stop running until you have them in your grasp. Because, dear, I promise you, nothing will make you happier. Nothing will bring you as much joy as doing the things you love to do. Be it medicine, law, words, or sharing the gospel.

Chase your dreams. Make yourself happy.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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To The High School Graduating Seniors

I know you're ready, but be ready.



I am not going to say anything about senioritis because I was ready to get out of there and I'm sure you are too; however, in your last months living at home you should take advantage of the luxuries you will not have in a college dorm. The part of college seen in movies is great, the rest of it is incredibly inconvenient. It is better to come to terms with this While you still have plenty of time to prepare and enjoy yourself.

Perhaps one of the most annoying examples is the shower. Enjoy your hot, barefoot showers now because soon enough you will have no water pressure and a drain clogged with other people's hair. Enjoy touching your feet to the floor in the shower and the bathroom because though it seems weird, it's a small thing taken away from you in college when you have to wear shoes everywhere.

Enjoy your last summer with your friends. After this summer, any free time you take is a sacrifice. For example, if you want to go home for the summer after your freshman year and be with your friends, you have to sacrifice an internship. If you sacrifice an internship, you risk falling behind on your resume, and so on. I'm not saying you can't do that, but it is not an easy choice anymore.

Get organized. If you're like me you probably got good grades in high school by relying on your own mind. You think I can remember what I have to do for tomorrow. In college, it is much more difficult to live by memory. There are classes that only meet once or twice a week and meeting and appointments in between that are impossible to mentally keep straight. If you do not yet have an organizational system that works for you, get one.

I do not mean to sound pessimistic about school. College is great and you will meet a lot of people and make a lot of memories that will stick with you for most of your life. I'm just saying be ready.

-A freshman drowning in work

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