Daddy,

Some think it's weird that I'm almost 21 years old and continue to call you "Daddy." Other fathers hope their daughters still call them that when they're my age.

I know this isn't true of every girl out there. I know I'm beyond blessed to have the father that I do.

I'm writing this to you not only as your daughter, but as one of the many who know the intricacies of the lessons only their fathers could teach them. Because out of every helping hand I have received, you are one of the few who get the least amount of credit and praise for all of the things you do. You, and every other remarkable father out there deserve to the praise and utmost respect I'm about to give you. It's long overdue.

You taught me many lessons on what it means to truly love and experience life. You taught me how I should be treated by a man. I remember you painting my toenails when I was a little girl, letting me fix your hair, tossing me up and catching me constantly, and going to work with you. I remember every time you selflessly did what I wanted, and never asked for anything in return. I remember every display of overwhelming patience and grace you showed me. It lives in the heart of a daughter forever.

Often today, a dependable and trustworthy father figure can become a scarcity, so for those of us blessed enough to have a dad like you, we feel the strength of that presence. We watched as you ran to get the car for us in the rain, or wiped our tears away after a boy broke our hearts (even if you weren't that sad about it). They engrave themselves on our young and transforming hearts as we grew into young women. I learned to love the way I was loved by you. I had high expectations because you set the bar so high. I have high hopes because you taught me that love from another should be respectful, honest, and encouraging. As a father, you taught me so much more than a daughter could ever express.

Daddy, you were the first man I ever loved. You held me, played with me, supported me, and let me grow. Your patience, understanding, and unwavering love made me who I am today. You believed in me first, danced with me first, gave me all I could have ever needed and more. You gave me love.

By giving me love, you taught me what it is and what it isn't. While I've been in a few "bad" or "rough" relationships, I knew I deserved so much better, simply because you showed me I deserved so much more. You showed me love is being strong and humble, while also loving one's self enough to reach for the stars. Love is respect and support on all of life's endeavors. You helped me load down my car and brought me to every new adventure my heart needed to go on. You've held me tight and told me I could do anything.

One day, you'll walk me down the aisle to another man, chosen in the image of how you taught me to be loved. When I let go of your arm, I hope you know that my heart is moved in the shape of the love you showed me. I hope you know I'm never really letting go, because I know that through any stage I encounter or dream I decide to chase, you're still back there watching me, and waiting for my call. I know that in my heart there isn't love like the first love, and that part of me will always belong to you.

I'll love you forever. I'll like you for always. As long as I'm living, my daddy you'll be.

Always,
Your Little Girl