We live in a world where it is always the women's blame. We women constantly soul search, buying every lifestyle/relationship book on the market, and attending conferences on how to be a better you. We do all this work, for a man that isn't interested. Don't you know…men are safety covered with a blanket, "boys will be boys, and men will be men", that shelters them from any responsibility when is comes to being accountable for their behavior. We women pacify that party.
It kills me how a man can in one sentence manipulate a woman to believing he is interested only to call her stupid for believing in the next. Or the second nature line we have all heard way more than once…" I tired; it didn't work." Ladies…wake up! Why do we deal with these lazy conversations and accept the scraps they throw us to stay interested?
It is not the women's responsibility to develop a man's moral character that's an inside job between a man and His Maker!!!! And until then he will ruin every woman he comes across.
By any means necessary rescue him, protect him, submit to him, cover him, support him, and embrace him. Embrace his growth or lack thereof. Embrace his soul or lack thereof. Support his struggle yet repress your own. As women we shouldn't have pain. But oh, do we bleed. We bleed from the gaping wound that refuses to heal from the gash left from where a man cut you. For every woman that has been deceived. For every woman that was led on. For every woman that their heart rips every time the painful memories of rejection flashes. I am sorry.
