Hi, I am KT and I am the blunt friend. The one who tells it like it is and values honesty.

Now I know most people have seen the articles or lists about how someone is grateful for their blunt friend. Well, here is the story from the blunt side of the friendship. It is not as easy as everyone says it is. As the blunt friend, I have to tell some of the people that I love the most what everyone else is thinking and that can be hard.

I am not a person that enjoys hurting others' feelings or making them feel uncomfortable, for that matter. As the blunt friend, my job is hard, but also the most appreciated, I feel. Anyone who has ever met me will tell you that I am extremely honest, and, for the most part, I warn people about it. I tell people because I do not want to hurt their feelings, but it does not always work out that way.

As your blunt friend, our main goal is to help you out in the long run. Why would we want you to go on without knowing that shirt may not look good? Or if we are tired of seeing you thot around at night and we let you know, it is because we know you are so much better than that. As the blunt friend, we know you. We know what you are capable of and we know your accomplishments, therefore we do not want, and will not let you, sell yourself short. We love you and we care, we just have a different way of telling you things, and sometimes they are not warm and fluffy.

Lastly, here is my apology. I apologize if I have ever hurt your feelings, that was not my intention. I am sorry if you felt I was out of place for stating my opinion. I am sorry if you feel like what I said did not help you (or so you thought), but just know that I do in fact love you, no matter how "mean" I am.