The 5 Types Of Graduates On Your News Feed

The 5 Types Of Graduates On Your News Feed

What type of graduate "real world" life are you posting?
Cat D
Cat D

As a graduate student, I’ve noticed my newsfeed on social media changing. No longer are my feeds filled with date function posts, club meetings, or spring break travels. Instead, they have been swapped out for “real world” posts. After I graduated my social media did, too. Has anyone else noticed this?

Basically, for the sake of this article these “real world album” posts can be lumped into five different categories; the academic graduate, the traveling alumni, the money makers, the gap takers, and the family lovers. Many people are a mix of all of these, but for the most part, everyone relates to one more than another. Which one are you?

1. The Academic Graduate

These are your lab partners who you were lucky to have in undergrad because they would make sure you not only got an A on that report, but you had your carbon copy for safe keeping.

They just love school.

They love it so much now they have continued onto some sort of graduate school whether it’s a masters or Ph.D. program, medical school, law school, vet school, any school really.

They’re still snapping their all-nighters at the library. For the most part, these are super organized, driven people. The career they want requires a little more time spent posting about how many papers they have due, and that’s okay. I would rather my doctor know more about anatomy than what we all learned in biology class.

Thank you for spending 4 extra years in school.

2. The Traveling Alumni

These are the ones who could turn any trip into a memory and a go pro video, too.

They’re the ones you always found having the most fun at functions with their extra outgoing and fun personalities. You still check their posts daily to see what castle they’re touring, what wines their tasting, or what food they’re eating.

These are the posts that make us all grab our planners and look up the cheapest flight ASAP to nearly any exotic country. How did they luck out with a job or school abroad? I guess we have some notes to take.

3. The Money Makers

These are the ones who always had that huge exam on Tuesdays in HCB. They were hard workers in undergrad and carry on that same goal getter personality in their real jobs.

Getting paid for what they do 9-5 Monday through Friday is a perk, too.

Their snaps vary from super early morning office meeting to late Friday afternoon office parties. They work hard and play hard. These are the people who know what they want in the end and are willing to put in some serious hours to continue working up that ladder.

Keep it up.

4. The Gap Takers

These are the ones in undergrad who always had well thought out plans for everything.

Whether it was for an exam or trip, they were ready and could send you every detail you needed to know. This coordinated character carried them into their gap year which they are still pros at planning. Their patience and focus are what make them achieve that greater goal above and beyond what they could do right off of college avenue.

For example, PA school needs a crazy number of hours, which is nearly impossible to do as an undergrad. Therefore, the only reasonable way is a to take a gap year. They may even be making money for more school, studying for the MCAT, or discovering a new-found love for cooking.

Whatever it is, they have it under control. Personally, their posts of their pets at home are my favorite.

5. The Family Lovers

These are the ones in undergrad that the whole group would call “mom and dad” when you went anywhere with them.

They’ve most likely been dating since forever, and everyone had a hunch they would be the first of the friends to get married. They’re the friendly and mature ones who seem to always know what they’re doing.

Anyone posting about their own wedding, their own house, or their own babies truly does know what they’re doing. They also know how to take the cutest Gerber baby model pics of their little ones. Goals.

In the end, whatever people are posting after you click away from this article and continue scrolling is awesome. Everyone is doing their own thing, finding their own way. It’s a tough “real word” out there and we can all take notes from each other. It’s easy to compare your lifestyle to other’s but the truth is that we are all “adulting” just fine.

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Working With People Who Are Dying Teaches You So Much About How To Live

Spending time with hospice patients taught me about the art of dying.


Death is a difficult subject.

It is addressed differently across cultures, lifestyles, and religions, and it can be difficult to find the right words to say when in the company of someone who is dying. I have spent a lot of time working with hospice patients, and I bore witness to the varying degrees of memory loss and cognitive decline that accompany aging and disease.

The patients I worked with had diverse stories and interests, and although we might have had some trouble understanding each other, we found ways to communicate that transcended any typical conversation.

I especially learned a lot from patients severely affected by dementia.

They spoke in riddles, but their emotions were clearly communicated through their facial expressions and general demeanor, which told a story all on their own.

We would connect through smiles and short phrases, yes or no questions, but more often than not, their minds were in another place. Some patients would repeat the details of the same event, over and over, with varying levels of detail each time.

Others would revert to a child-like state, wondering about their parents, about school, and about family and friends they hadn't seen in a long time.

I often wondered why their minds chose to wander to a certain event or time period and leave them stranded there before the end of their life. Was an emotionally salient event reinforcing itself in their memories?

Was their subconscious trying to reconnect with people from their past? All I could do was agree and follow their lead because the last thing I wanted to do was break their pleasant memory.

I felt honored to be able to spend time with them, but I couldn't shake the feeling that I was intruding on their final moments, moments that might be better spent with family and loved ones. I didn't know them in their life, so I wondered how they benefited from my presence in their death.

However, after learning that several of the patients I visited didn't have anyone to come to see them, I began to cherish every moment spent, whether it was in laughter or in tears. Several of the patients never remembered me. Each week, I was a new person, and each week they had a different variation of the same story that they needed to tell me.

In a way, it might have made it easier to start fresh every week rather than to grow attached to a person they would soon leave.

Usually, the stories were light-hearted.

They were reliving a memory or experiencing life again as if it were the first time, but as the end draws nearer, a drastic shift in mood and demeanor is evident.

A patient who was once friendly and jolly can quickly become quiet, reflective, and despondent. I've seen patients break down and cry, not because of their current situation, but because they were mourning old ones. These times taught me a lot about how to be just what that person needs towards the end of their life.

I didn't need to understand why they were upset or what they wanted to say.

The somber tone and tired eyes let me know that what they had to say was important and worth hearing. What mattered most is that someone who cared was there to hear it.

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A Few Birthday Thoughts

Goodbye teenage years, hello twenties!


So, it is looking like I am about to leave my teenage years behind. I think that I want to reflect back on this time in my life and think about what I want to keep with me in my twenties and maybe some things I can let go. My teenage years have been full of love from my family and friends; hard work to make good grades in school and creating art. I developed several great friendships that I have held on to across the miles even though I went to college 14 hours away from our previous home. I am so thankful for the friendships I have made in college as well.

It seems like friends you make in your childhood and younger years can really stand the test of time. Maybe it is because when you became friends you were truly who you were. Everyone was genuine and didn't put up walls to protect themselves. You got to know someone on a deeper more personal level more quickly than if you had met later in life. I also think we laughed even more as children and that always creates good memories to look back on. So I think in my twenties I will try to hang on to the "childish" way of making friends. I will try to show my true self and will accept them for who they are, and we will laugh....a lot.

I think a good thing to let go of is always trying to make dead-end relationships work. When we were children on the playground and we tried to play a game together or jump rope and it just wasn't working, we would run off and find someone else. It was easy. It was just natural. Now sometimes I find myself trying to stay in a relationship by being overly nice, giving gifts, trying to find what pushes the persons "good" buttons. I might spend so much time trying to figure this person out that I leave out more solid relationships that are worth my time. So in my twenties, I will try to be more realistic about who to spend my time on. Some people are just never going to stand the test of time. I can continue to be cordial but won't let them rule my time and thought life.

As children, we loved our parents and siblings and would show love to them in a myriad of ways. Maybe it was hugs, pictures on the fridge, good night kisses, playing games, or just quality time spent together as a family. Starting my twenties, I am mature enough to realize the value of these people in my life. Thankfully, I have always known this. I was never the type that was embarrassed if someone saw me walking with my Mom or Dad or being dropped off in the Mom Van somewhere. I always knew these people loved me more than anyone else I was about to meet. But in my twenties, I plan to keep up with my family even when I am eight hours away from them. We are never too old to need the love of family.

As weird as it is to say goodbye to my teenage years, it's honestly helped me to soak in the precious moments of everyday life and treasure them even more. Every year when birthdays come around, it always serves as a reminder how quickly the days, months, and years fly by. I think that has been one difficult part of this birthday season. It's hard to say goodbye to the past, without a clear map of the future. But, I must remind myself that this is why growing up is a beautiful thing- as we live life and experience new things, we are better prepared for what the future may hold. Everything that I have experienced in my 20 years has served an important purpose- to make me into the person I am supposed to become. Yes, life is always changing and so am I... and change can be hard. Very hard. But one thing to remember is God is always constant. He will never change. No matter what number is on your birthday cake, He is always there...the same God yesterday, today and tomorrow. He is the Rock that we will always be able to cling to. Isn't that a wonderful thought? Even if we don't know what's in His plans for us in the coming year, it's important to make Him a part of our plans. Rather than worry about change, let's embrace it all- the good and the bad- and look to the Lord to see how He will guide and shape us.

Teenage years- the time has come. I must say goodbye to you now. But, you will never be forgotten. I will hold your memories in my heart forever. Twenties- I am excited for all that awaits me.

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go." - Joshua 1:9

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