When was the last time you said "thank you"?
"Thank you" are two incredibly powerful words. When was the last time you said them? Two tiny little words, two quick syllables, and they can have a profound impact. It is especially important in any of our relationships to express our gratitude -- whether it be to your parent, friends, or partner -- for so many reasons. Saying "thank you" is an art, and an under appreciated one at that. The world is moving so quickly, time is flying, and we simply will not catch up to its pace, so we might as well make the most of it with kindness.
People are more likely to feel more motivated if they feel appreciated, and that goes for both their professional and personal lives. I can certainly attest to that fact. I feel a lot less inclined to do spontaneous, nice things for people that express no gratitude. It may not be entirely necessary, but it is definitely encouraging. The same goes for myself in the workplace. In our thirsty economy, sometimes two little words can act as extra incentive. As humans, we crave feeling connected, and saying "thank you" makes it easy to connect with anybody - even strangers.
When you say "thank you", people feel a huge array of emotions, and feelings are an incredibly powerful force in the universe. Feelings make heart break physically hurt, make happiness cause you to glow, and make desire burn red hot. Like I said, it is very powerful to feel. When you express gratitude to others, you make them feel respected and worthy in their own right. Thanking someone shows them that you value them and what they are doing, and that is golden.
Saying "thank you" is a two-way street, and there is definitely something to be earned on both sides. When you make a habit of expressing gratitude, you are more likely to receive better service (like in a restaurant). It will increase your happiness in so many aspects of life. You will have a happier home life, and even more positive outcomes in your professional life (like in school and at work). It also encourages people to be more willing to help you in the future and it is incredibly important to start building bridges.
Expressing your thanks is also contagious! Once you show kindness to someone, they are more likely to spread it to someone else. You do not have to overdo it, just be thoughtful about when you say "thank you", and how. As long as you are sincere and genuine, the words will flow and it will feel wonderful on both sides. I have never had someone say "thank you" to me and had it ruin my day.
