I remember opening my envelope on bid day and being excited and anxious for everything that was to come. But I could have never imagined all the amazing blessings that would come so quickly. One major part of Greek Life that meant more to me than anything else was gaining a support system that would always have my back no matter what life threw at me. When I initially joined my chapter, I thought I would turn to my sisters for a Dunkin' date, a suggestion for a professor, someone to study with, an outfit to borrow, or someone to talk to after a bad day. But, just a few weeks after my initiation into my sorority, my chapter proved that sisterhood was much more than that.
Shortly after receiving my bid this past spring, I noticed my migraines were getting worse, and I took a trip to my neurologist. I was diagnosed with chronic migraines about two months before initiation. As if I was not already busy and stressed enough, everything seemed to become ten times more stressful. My grades started slipping; I missed a few classes, I had trouble sleeping, I was constantly sick, and I was busy every minute of the day. Balancing school, work, and my chapter requirements while my neurologist was experimenting with different types of medications was taking a serious toll on my health. Needless to say, things were rough.
I love my chapter. I love what we stand for. I love our philanthropies. I love my sisters. I love the love that we all share. I dedicated as much time as I possibly could to submerging my entire self into my chapter for six weeks before initiation without letting anyone know that I was sick. I did not want my diagnosis to interfere with my position in the chapter because I wanted to be as involved as possible. I stuck it out as long as I could before it truly became unbearable, and finally I spoke up.
I could not have asked for a more amazing executive board. Each and every one of them was more than understanding when I brought it to their attention. They reminded me that they were there to help me through it rather than to cause any further stress on me. I couldn't thank them enough. Then, word got out, and the support only grew.
So, I want to thank my chapter as a whole. I appreciate everything you guys have done for me and all the support you gave me this past spring. I truly don't think I could have gotten through some of those days without you! When my friends didn't understand, you guys did. When my professors didn't understand, you guys did. I can never thank you all enough for that.
And thank you to all the sorority girls out there who support and love their sisters. To the girls who know what sisterhood is and abide by it each day. Being a good sister means going to all the events. Being a good sister means wearing your letters. Being a good sister means fundraising for your philanthropy. But in my experience, being a great sister means being there when another sister needs you, no matter what it may be.
I have never been happier with a decision than I am with going Greek, especially with going Alpha Gam!
