For Mother's Day, I don't usually post anything or share pictures. A day of honor and appreciation for me is just a day of redundancy of people saying their mom is the best. So since this year I didn't send out any "Happy Mother's Day" texts, I just want to shout out some very important women in my life that have helped me throughout my journey.

MS: Thank you for literally accepting me into your family. You've been there for me so much without hesitation. From courtrooms to foster care. At this point, I can't imagine my life without you in it. You are my mom and someone I love dearly and I can't wait for my kids to have an amazing nanny. "Thank you" wouldn't even begin to suffice for all the things you've done for me.

MP: I can't even begin to thank you! You took me in while you were sick. Comforted me while I cried and always called me beautiful. I am so grateful for you and your daughter who is now one of my closest friends. I will never forget the kindness/hospitality your family showed me. If it weren't for you guys, I wouldn't be in some of the positions I am today. Thank you for your love but more importantly, thank you for the time you gave me, it changed everything.

DS: I remember coming off the train and I came over that night and I was so nervous to tell you that I had nowhere to go. Thinking you would just tell me to do what everyone else was saying which was "Go to a shelter," but no. We came up with a plan, we sought counsel and had a place within four weeks. You helped me so much and helped me move into my new place. Your generosity isn't forgotten or undervalued in my eyes or God's. I love your family so much and I'm so thankful for all of them.

MCF: SPICYYY! You've known me since I was 13... which is nine years too long. But knowing you is such a blessing and I've seen you in so many roles and the one that you're now stepping into is right! I don't regret a lot of things, but one thing I do wish I could take back is saying you weren't a leader. You've shown up for me more times than I can count, you've spoken life into me when I couldn't see it, and you never fail to make me laugh. All qualities of an amazing leader. From foster care to precincts, you've literally always been there. Your husband isn't too bad either! But I love you so much and I could NOT imagine my life without you in it!

CV: Thank you for always keeping it all the way real. Not tiptoeing around anything to spare my feelings. You've been in my life for so many years and I never connected with you as much until this year. When I spoke to you I didn't feel pity or like a charity case, but I left talking to you feeling refreshed and empowered to attack my problem head-on. That strength came from your wisdom and toughness. You raise your kids the same way and I love them to pieces, too! Thank you for always being an ear and thank you for the endless laughs and GREAT food! Love you!

JI: I remember messaging you over Facebook asking if I could call you and you made time for me immediately without hesitation. I was probably at my lowest points and I just remember sobbing. Even though you were miles away, it felt like you were right there giving me a hug. You are such a beautiful person inside and out. You always call me princess and remind me always of God's faithfulness. Thank you for being you and giving me an awesome friend, too.

There aren't enough thank you's or enough space to write all the women who have literally carried me to the place I am now. Treating me like family and cherishing me when others didn't see value in me. The world is a dark place and it's hard to navigate this life without guidance. Here's to strong women. May we know them, love them, and raise them.