It's always important to spend time with your closest friends. Whether it's for a special occasion, a holiday, or just a random get together. Every moment spent with your closest girlfriends matters. The reason is because no matter what situation you've ever been in, there hasn't been one moment where they haven't been there for you. Even if they were not physically there. If there was ever a time where you felt sad, happy, or angry about something you can always count on your girlfriends helping you through it. Through most of the toughest events in your life, they have helped you feel like yourself again. Yes of course, even through a nasty breakup with an ex.
The reason why I cherish my girlfriends is mainly because of all the best memories I built with them. Some of the best times that have ever made me laugh has been with them. We can tell each other anything and not worry about what one will think. I hope that one day we'll be able to be those women in our 30s and 40s who will continue to share many more great memories to come.
Since seeing the movie "Girls Trip" over the summer, I remember walking out of the theater laughing to myself thinking "I wonder if that's how it's going to be with my girls and I." I sure do hope it is us one day. I keep seeing older women out with their best friends and I always smile knowing that they have such a strong bond. Don't get me wrong there are going to be times when you're not always going to agree and that is okay.
You're not always going to have some of the best times together simply because life is not meant for things to be perfect. To be perfectly honest, that is one of the many best things about being close with your girlfriends. Having them see you in your most imperfect moments means that they have seen you at both your worst and your best.
In times where I felt completely lost and upset I would simply just call or text them that I'm not having the best day and they would always be there to listen. I wouldn't vent to anyone else other than them, my sister, and my parents. I love spending time with the ones who I can go to brunch with and talk about my day to. I love my girlfriends to bits!
I hope that by the grace of God we can still be in touch with one another no matter what. No matter how bad we make mistakes, we'll be there to think of solutions to fix it. No matter how bad a situation may seem at the moment, we'll be there to make the best out of it. We'll be there for one another to catch each other when we fall. Trust is important, and you know your friendship is strong when you can trust. The bigger the bond the bigger the friendship. So to all my girlfriends, I love you all so much!! Never forget that!