Unfortunately, I am a member of the broken-hearted girls club. There is that point during the middle of being heartbroken where every love song reminds you of your ex. Ariana's song Thank u, next is the message that every broken-hearted girl needs to hear. It is not about hating your ex but thanking them for what they taught you.
1. “One taught me love”
Maybe you loved your ex, maybe you were falling in love, but if you are heartbroken you definitely had feelings for that person. Even though it hurts to be over, at least you know you are capable of love. They taught you how to love and now you know you are capable of love. You can take what you have learned about love and use it to better your next relationship.
2. “One taught me patience”
Your ex taught you how to be in a relationship, how to have patience with someone, how to have another person in your life and care about someone. Relationships take a lot of patience. You are learning about someone else and how their lifestyle can fit into your own.
3. “And one taught me pain”
4. “So, look what I gotLook what you taught me”
Be thankful for your past relationship(s), become a better version of yourself and learn from your relationships and better yourself from the pain. Look back and notice what that relationship has taught you and how you can grow from it. That relationship happened and ended to teach you something. Instead of being angry, realize what you were meant to learn and implement those lessons into your life to become a better person.
5. Thank you
You may have many feelings toward your ex, anger, confusion, sadness, and you have the right to have those feelings after getting your heart broken. If you look at what your ex taught you, you should thank them. Thank them for teaching you to love, for teaching you how to be vulnerable, for teaching you to be patient, and for teaching you how to let someone into your life, and how you can be a better person for someone else. Do not hold onto that anger, instead be thankful.
"I'm so fuckin' grateful for my ex"
6. Next
Let go of the person, of the pain they caused and of the hurt you are feeling. Get ready for the happiness that is coming. Enjoy where you are now, enjoy being single and realize that the right person will come at the right time. Your next person is coming.
"Thank you, next"You should not be angry, look at the brighter side and look at what you have learned from that relationship and use that to better yourself for the next relationship. So, to my ex, thank you but I'm ready for the next.
