How Technology Takes Away From Real Life

How Technology Takes Away From Real Life

Real life is more important than social media.

I used to text constantly. I was that kid — I half-listened when people talked to me and made so many of my friends annoyed when they had to ask me a question three times before I’d respond. But it was okay, I thought, because I was connecting with someone else. What’s the harm in having a conversation with someone you care about? I didn’t even think about how they might feel, how annoying I must have been from their perspective. It wasn’t until I was in their shoes that I truly realized what I’d been doing for so long, and was forced to see everything I’d been missing.

Have you ever tried to talk to someone who is texting someone else? It’s pretty much impossible, not to mention it sucks. Technology is good for so many things, don’t get me wrong, but it also sometimes brings out the worst in us, or keeps us from experiencing life. I’ve been noticing people being so reliant on technology more and more, so much so that they forget what they’re actually doing in real life. We get so wrapped up in the virtual world that we forget to acknowledge the people and things that are right in front of us.

Sure, texting provides revolutionarily easy access to people from all around the world at the click of a button. I used to be the worst culprit of constantly texting my high school boyfriend while I was with my friends and completely ignoring them in order to do so. Texting is great, but when you have an actual real live person in front of you, you might want to lay off a bit. I didn’t realize how annoying a serial texter could be until I wasn’t one, but now I’m definitely an advocate for leaving texting until you’re not supposed to be spending time with other people.

Snapchat is arguably even worse. I don’t think I’ve been to a single social event since the app was invented that wasn’t full of people taking snap stories, so concerned with making it look like they’re having a good time on their night out that it doesn’t really matter if that’s actually the case. It’s gotten to the point that if someone doesn’t have an elaborate and detailed snap story narrating the phases of their Saturday night, people assume they stayed in alone. Social media is the same way because let's face it — if you didn’t Instagram it, did it even happen?

We all do all of these things, and it’s unrealistic to think that any of it is going to stop anytime soon. Technology has become a huge part of our lives, that’s a fact — a fact that’s only going to increase over the years, undoubtedly. But if we are aware of it, maybe once in awhile we can put down the phone and look at the Rockefeller Center Christmas tree, or the concert that we spent all your savings to get great seats for, with our eyes and not through our tiny iPhone screens. When you go out to coffee to catch up with your friend you haven’t seen in a few weeks, keep your phone in your pocket so texts from the guy you’ve been seeing won’t distract you. If we can, at least, be more conscious of the barriers technology puts up between us and the world around us, maybe we can knock down a few at a time.

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Sorry, not sorry.


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There's a huge difference between being modest while breastfeeding and just being straight up careless, trashy and disrespectful to those around you. Why don't you try popping out a boob without a baby attached to it and see how long it takes for you to get arrested for public indecency? Strange how that works, right?

So many people talking about it bring up the point of how we shouldn't "sexualize" breastfeeding and seeing a woman's breasts while doing so. Actually, all of these people are missing the point. It's not sexual, it's just purely immodest and disrespectful.

If you see a girl in a shirt cut too low, you call her a slut. If you see a celebrity post a nude photo, you call them immodest and a terrible role model. What makes you think that pulling out a breast in the middle of public is different, regardless of what you're doing with it?

If I'm eating in a restaurant, I would be disgusted if the person at the table next to me had their bare feet out while they were eating. It's just not appropriate. Neither is pulling out your breast for the entire general public to see.

Nobody asked you to put a blanket over your kid's head to feed them. Nobody asked you to go feed them in a dirty bathroom. But you don't need to basically be topless to feed your kid. Growing up, I watched my mom feed my younger siblings in public. She never shied away from it, but the way she did it was always tasteful and never drew attention. She would cover herself up while doing it. She would make sure that nothing inappropriate could be seen. She was lowkey about it.

Mindblowing, right? Wait, you can actually breastfeed in public and not have to show everyone what you're doing? What a revolutionary idea!

There is nothing wrong with feeding your baby. It's something you need to do, it's a part of life. But there is definitely something wrong with thinking it's fine to expose yourself to the entire world while doing it. Nobody wants to see it. Nobody cares if you're feeding your kid. Nobody cares if you're trying to make some sort of weird "feminist" statement by showing them your boobs.

Cover up. Be modest. Be mindful. Be respectful. Don't want to see my boobs? Good, I don't want to see yours either. Hard to believe, I know.

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What Are Snow Days Anyways?

Especially in Maine, they don't exist.


I have grown up in New England my entire life, and anyone who knows New England weather knows that one day it will be 50 and sunny and the next we will have 3 feet of snow. There is not a happy medium, in between. But snow days have drastically changed over the years especially as I moved from Connecticut to Maine for school.

As a kiddo, I loved snow days, playing in the snow and then having a big ole cup of hot chocolate all cuddled up under the fuzziest of blankets. They were amazing. No worries, no school just a fun day at home.

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That's what I miss.

"Mental Health Days" are super super important. They help you keep your sanity. They keep you from feeling overwhelmed and stressed. They prevent injuries and illness whether it be from a virus or just emotional stress and draining. Mental health days are good for so many more reasons too.

And plus sometimes, YOU JUST NEED A DAMN DAY!

But as I get further into my college career, while I missed the snow days and the mental health days more than ever, I also really didn't want to have a snow day. Weird right? At first, I was just thinking that I was going crazy. Because who wouldn't want a day off, especially a full-time student who is also working full time.


This is why I knew that if we had a snow day I would still have work to do. My professors would most likely just make me responsible for the material missed and let's be honest who actually sits down and thoroughly covers the material missed. And I can't ask questions from the comfort of my bed.

But in reality this last snow storm, I didn't want the snow day for completely selfish reasons. If we had a snow day on Wednesday, my exam would be moved to Friday. And then I would have two back to back exams in my hardest classes on a Friday morning. Yes, it would give me more time to study but like then I will over study for one and not study enough for the other.

So I'm being selfish!

And my friends think I am totally insane and ruining their chances of a day off. BUT I DON'T CARE.

It is okay to be a little selfish every now and again. Take the time for YOU! Do what is best for you and think whatever makes you happy. Stop worrying about everyone else, for every second of every day and


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