Vulnerability—defined by Webster Dictionary “capable of being physically or emotionally wounded”. Vulnerability defined by society— “a characteristic that some individuals show/obtain, making them weak”. Vulnerability defined by me—courageous, powerful, and necessary.
Living today; people of all ages are continuously trying to tip toe around the hard V word, afraid that if they show any “symptoms” of this plague, their reputations are now ruined. If you show any remarks of remorse, sadness, stress, or even at times happiness, you will be torn apart and labeled as fragile or arrogant amongst your peers; but why? Why is expressing emotion considered a flaw?
It’s 2017 people, we have crushed many stereotypes, spoke up on equal rights for all, and completed other countless steps to make our society better; but us humans can’t grasp a positive concept of vulnerability because we have been influenced that showing emotion is wrong. However, I am here to tell you that vulnerability is the building block for everything that happens in our life; negative or positive.
Society doesn’t realize that the actions of being vulnerable benefits the individual. Allowing yourself to express the emotions that you’re feeling will expand your knowledge and make you realize what it is that makes you unique as a person. Then excepting and being aware of who you are in this big world, will guide you towards the right kinds of people; whether that be your best friends, significant other, or even a professor, they’ll affect your life for the better. Relationships thrive from vulnerability—giving people a stronger bond. Why should we hide who we are and what it is that we feel?
Picture a life without sharing more than just a surface connection; you know, the relationships that only remain as acquaintances. Picture living in a world where taking chances isn’t something that is encouraged, however staying in a safety net is praised. Imagine; not being able to share your thoughts through a smile, tears, or even laughter. We are lucky to live in a world that gives us the right to share not only verbal communication but the addition of emotions that help us create a bond with others and find peace within ourselves. Vulnerability is the fundamental principle that gives people the opportunity to live a full, jubilant life.
So, take that risk; move across the country for your dream job, stand up against the bully that has been bothering you, tell your significant other that you love them, or even create the courage to stand up and preach on what you’re passionate about. Because the secret in life that society has hidden from us is the gift of vulnerability. Remember, “Vulnerability is not weakness. And that myth is profoundly dangerous. Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity, and change,” [Brene Brown]. Go through all the emotions and share all your feelings, you’ll look back and realize that vulnerability isn’t a curse, but rather a gift.
