Sexual assault is defined as "forced and unwanted sexual activity, including kissing, exhibitionism, groping, and rape." Attackers may use coercion and threat, or they may use alcohol or drugs to take control of their victims.
As you may know, sexual assault is, unfortunately, prevalent on college and university campuses across the country. According to the NSVRC, the estimated percentage of completed or attempted rapes toward women in the higher education system is 20-25% during the duration of their time on campus. 9 out of 10 female rape victims knew their attacker, and, of all victims, 22.8% of those were victims of multiple attacks.
Women are not the only people who are victims of rape and sexual assault, though. According to bestcolleges.com, about 10% of all sexual assaults are attacks on male victims. Many men do not report their attacks for fear of appearing weak, and this stigma is dangerous.
We should not be teaching not to be raped, but instead, not to rape. It is important that you educate yourself and promote the education of others on the dangers of sexual assault. We must eradicate this sickening epidemic which is taking over our college campuses. Be a part of the solution rather than a perpetuator of the problem. Do not stand idly by. Encourage sexual relationships where consent is freely, clearly, and enthusiastically given and all participants feel safe and heard. Look out for others, keep yourself aware. Support, protect, validate, listen to victims and survivors of sexual assault. Do not turn a blind eye to the problem in the hopes that it will eventually go away. If we do nothing, it will only get worse.
It's On Us is a national campaign that is working to educate people about sexual assault, especially on college campuses. Students and others, all across the country are taking the pledge "To RECOGNIZE that non-consensual sex is sexual assault.To IDENTIFY situations in which sexual assault may occur.To INTERVENE in situations where consent has not or cannot be given.To CREATE an environment in which sexual assault is unacceptable and survivors are supported."
Don't be a bystander. I've taken the pledge. Have you?
