Here's a basic fact that it took me 20 years to learn: not everyone is going to like you. People are born into a variety of backgrounds, gaining a myriad of experiences along the way that shape them into who they are. It is that process that makes the human experience beautiful and creates a rich culture with a distinct array of individuals. No two people are exactly the same. Therefore, you cannot aspect another person to like everything that you are unless they are the same person as you. It's unreasonable to expect others to love every part of what makes you because they have not had the exact same experiences that you have.