Sweet friend,
Don’t try so hard.
College is suppose to be four (or five) of the best years of your life. Don’t let the pressure of those around you bring you down.
It’s okay if you don’t want to rush; rush is not for every person. However, don’t be afraid to be friends with those who do rush, there are good people in Greek life.
It’s okay if you do want to rush. Don’t let the stigma that people have towards Greek life steer you from amazing opportunities that interest you.
It’s okay if your major is not a science major; it’s okay if you don’t want to be a nurse, or you have a love for art. Be respectful of everyone and their passion, though.
It’s okay if you are not in the party scene. It’s not for every person, and you will find people who would rather go to Cookout with you than a party involving alcohol.
It’s okay if you fail one class. College will be hard. However, your college experience won’t end because you didn’t pass Math. Make sure to collect yourself, and try harder next time.
It's okay to have a job. It'll be difficult to balance everything, but so rewarding in the end. You'll experience your first taste of freedom and self-sufficiency.
It’s okay if you are coming to college with a completely clean slate. Not every person had a beautiful experience walking out of high school. Don’t let those demons of the past keep you from finding your group here. Through the years, you will change. Be open to your friend group changing as you grow and experience college, and learn who you want to be.
Don’t try so hard, sweet friend.
You will find the group that loves you dearly.
You will find what sets your heart ablaze and pushes you to do better.
You will find those extra-curricular activities that you will fall in love with. Whether it is a hobby, a religious group, or a cause that grabs your heart, you will find it. Don’t let snide remarks stop you from doing something that you find fun.
It’s okay if you don’t change your major. You're not required to change your major, and if you love what you are studying, don’t change it because your friends are changing theirs.
It’s okay if you do change you major. Don’t force yourself to be in a major that is killing you, both mentally and emotionally. Go for the next best option. It’s okay.
Four years (or five) of college are meant to be an exciting, emotional, growth period. Where you get to become who you always wanted to be. Have the time of your life; work hard; dream and get excited.
Don’t try so hard, sweet friend.
