I feel old. Not like ancient, but not like a kid anymore, which I think is a good thing in most aspects of my life. I mean, I can successfully fill up my car now without having to call my mom and ask her what grade fuel I need. That seems pretty adult of me, right? But something not so cool about feeling older is that it also feels like the summer no longer applies to me in the way it used to. I've been attempting to combat that feeling for the past few weeks, so here are some things I've done to enjoy my summer while also attempting to be a productive member of Adult America.
1. Reading
This seems like the most adult activity on this list, but let's be real, I am a dork. I can accept it now as the truth. I am a dork now and I was a dork when I was younger, so reading was pretty much a daily staple for me growing up. Going to high school and college and being basically forced to read for a grade had dampened my enjoyment for reading. I thought picking it back up again would be a nice, relaxing gesture for myself. I was right.
2. Taking Walks in the Evening
Annie, isn't walking slowly around a neighborhood at dusk such an old person thing to do? The answer is no -- get with the times. It is an extremely calming activity and the most beautiful end of a long work day I can think of. It allows me to clear my head and enjoy the summertime at its most pleasant.
3. Hanging Out with My Parents and (if possible) Babies
I realize that this one may not be possible for some people. But if it is, take some time and just chill with your parents. Mine are a lot cooler than I give them credit for and I really like being around them, especially when we can all just hang out and watch a movie or a baseball game. They always make me feel heard, but also treat me like I'm still their young, semi-oblivious daughter. It is very grounding. Added bonus if you can also see your parents in action around a baby or a toddler. I had this opportunity and did not stop smiling the whole day.
These suggestions are a little odd and not very exciting, but they have really made a difference in my summer so far. If you're feeling a little old, a little run down and a little work-worn, maybe give one or two of these things a try. They may just make the summer feel a little more endless, like it used to.
