On Twitter, folks go on about how easy it is to find men that are willing to be used for money (I haven’t seen much being said about sugar mommies? We’ll probably talk about that another time). Still, I haven’t met any.
Peeps online also talk a lot about the money. And the gifts. And not so much about the sexual favors that are often part of the deal (so that’s important to keep in mind). Although, some people just have wish lists in their bios, and with enough followers (like somewhere in the hundreds, or thousands I guess), friends and strangers will purchase things from it- because they like you/your presence online. Often, anonymously.
By now you’ve maybe guessed that this isn’t a guide on how to become a sugar baby. Nor is it a how-to on how to wind up on the receiving end of a pay-pig relationship, because I really don’t know how (although I’m totally open to the idea. I’m a super, mega, horny-slut. Receiving gifts for being horny seems awesome to me). I’m just telling you guys what I know.
And so I’ll also tell you guys this – even though sugar daddy/pay pig relationships seem to be ongoing, and, as I’ve said not as easy to find yourself in as people suggest sometimes – from my own experience, it’s really easy to have someone online buy you a sex toy. Post a link to the one that you want, and ask. It’s pretty simple if your account is public, thus open to anyone.
I’ve found that it’s not uncommon for people to follow you online because they find you sexually attractive (forgive me father for I have thirst-followed, many a time). Its like, “Oh, this person’s super-hot. I want to get know stuff about them.” I think it’s comparable to being able to read your crush's diary. Plus there are illustrations in the form of pictures (gifs, memes, pet pics, selfies).
And so then, from a psychological point-of-view (I have a degree in psychology by the way), the idea of a crush masturbating, and using a sex toy could get a person off. It could be even more intriguing if they’ve purchased the toy because not only would they know what kind of toy it is, and what it looks like – but it could also feel like the toy’s an extension of themselves. In this way, the “relationship” transcends from online, in to real life. It’d be like, “Wow, I’m f•••ing an online crush, and making them cum every time they use the toy that I bought them.”
Needless to say, anonymity, on the part of the giver, of a gift like this is pretty important. Otherwise, you might end up with a stranger feeling like you owe them something, just because they’ve bought you a present (that's not good).
I should also mention this: Never should you ever do sexual favors for people online (or in real life) unless you (and only you!) want to; and, make sure you’re getting any sort of gifts (cash is a gift, and a very lovely one, in my opinion) first, okay?
So that’s all I have to say about that.
Will check in to talk about more stuff again soon.
Be well, be safe, I love you, etc. Wooden nickels are not real currency, even though they kind of look like it, so don’t take any of those.
