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The Struggle Of Being The Person Who Doesn't Openly Share Things

It is OK to have feelings.

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The Struggle Of Being The Person Who Doesn't Openly Share Things

Being the type of person who doesn't openly share my feelings isn't a bad thing, in my personal opinion. I think there is a time and a place and that privacy is a right that everyone has. I don't want to share my feelings just for others to feel sorry for me or to suddenly become my friend out of pity. The people who are here for me now are here for me because they have proved themselves time and time again, and I know that I can trust them and go to them if I really need to. I am just the type of person who likes to figure things out on my own and build upon myself as I go. Of course, I think that if you really need to talk to someone, counseling is an awesome outlet due to confidentiality and professionalism, but I don't, however, think it is appropriate to share your story with anyone and everyone. Only people who you have faith in deserve to know what you've gone through and have the capability to help you through the hard times. Only those who you truly know will be there are the ones who should know how you feel. As cynical as it sounds, not everyone is looking out for you and not everyone cares, and these are the people: the ones who only stay with you for a few months, the ones who use you, the ones who act like they care when they don't; these are the ones that don't deserve to hear what you're thinking and feeling. There is a beauty to privacy and mystery, and I want to remain this way because I think I deserve to guard my feelings if I want to, and if I want to figure things out on my own, then so be it. Everyone is different and everyone has different ways of dealing with issues, but this is mine and in the long run, it benefits me as a person, a friend and as a confidante. I take pride in who I am when people feel comfortable enough to share information with me, because I know I have gained their trust and there is a mutual understanding there. I will never be someone who openly shares my emotions with anyone and everyone and maybe, in a way, I need to work on that, but I have been able to realize that it is OK to show some weakness and that if need be, it is OK to let my emotions show, even if they may be negative ones. If you take away anything from this, I want you to know that it is OK to be human and that there is a healthy balance of sharing and keeping information. Once you feel comfortable enough in front of others, it is most definitely OK to discuss how you feel and it isn't always necessary to bottle up your emotions, because more often than not it leads to an unwanted explosion. Being the person that doesn't share openly isn't necessarily a bad thing or a good thing; it is a quirk and it is something that I have been able to improve upon and understand as time goes on. If you are like me, I just want you to know that it is OK to find a balance and that we all have feelings. You can still be mysterious and you can still be private while being comfortable enough to share how you feel with those you are closest to.

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