Whether you have a boyfriend, you’re talking to a guy, only have sexual relations with a guy, or just feel like he is your property...I have some unfortunate news: he isn’t. The poor dude is a human being, not a Kendra Scott necklace.
I am not judging anyone for being crazy because Lord knows I was the worst when it came to my past relationship. I am able to voice my opinion about this matter mainly because I have learned from it. I never thought I would see this day to be completely honest. The day that I would be able to say, “Yeah, I don’t care.” I don’t care about what pictures he likes, who he goes out with, or what girls he is with.
If I even saw a girl associate with my ex I would be creepily watching her, thinking to myself, “You better keep your eyeballs in your lane girly because I will get you.” I was constantly worried about what he was doing and who he was with, which was incredibly unhealthy for not only our relationship, but for my personal wellbeing.
So, I have been there, I have been down the road of misery where you can’t sleep at night because he is innocently out at the bar. I have also been on the other side of the fence. I was harmlessly talking to a boy who I began to hang out with and I had a girl approach me in a way I wasn’t okay with. She pretty much told me I should’ve known that was her ex and to back off. I reasoned with her, because I knew I had once been in her shoes.
The solution to stopping yourself from being such a psycho is to stop being insecure about your relationship! And if he is giving you reasons to doubt your relationship, grow a pair of ovaries and dump him! If you trust your man and all he is doing is having a good time, there shouldn’t be an issue.
Now to the girls who still think their ex is still their property, just give! It is such a nice feeling knowing you don’t have to be mean to girls who just simply talk to your ex. If he’s stringing you along, maybe just take a step back, analyze the situation, and have some respect for yourself and drop him!
Being a psycho is such a waste of energy. You could be using that energy towards the squat rack on leg day. So ladies, if you are still hung on a guy or are insecure about your relationship, maybe it is time to let him go and focus on yourself so that you can be an even better you.
