Why Daenerys Targaryen Is Still My Khaleesi

Why Daenerys Targaryen Is Still My Khaleesi

Queen of Andals and our Hearts....


It is safe to say that, in the end, our beloved Dany may not have ended up being our favorite. You can see the moment in episode 5 where she finally snaps and burns down all of Kings Landing and the Red Keep.

We can say that seeing the last place that her father was alive struck a cord, but this IS the woman who wanted peace. For some, that was the breakaway point when our fealty was gone but for me, it started when the new season did.

The abrupt change in character was shocking and something that led me begging for her death so I would not have to see her become the villain.

Now, with that aside, lets be real with ourselves. Daenerys Targaryen will forever be our Khaleesi.

Daenerys grew up in the shadow of her abusive brother, sold off to a Dothraki warlord, raped, and endured countless hardships and came out on the other side a total badass. She always showed a level of strength and dignity that was amazing to watch and made her such a role model for all of us watching.

She taught us that our circumstances do not define where we will end up and that we can overcome all things if we believe in ourselves.

"Do you know what got me through all those years in exile? Faith. Not in any gods, not in myths and legends. In myself, Daenerys Targaryen."

Going back to her brother and family life, the things that she endured through her family alone is something that could break anyone. Her brother treated her like legitimate garbage and sold her off for his own gain.

Viserys basically abused her mentally and verbally for probably her whole life and it became worse as she got older. He was power hungry and didn't care that it took a toll on his sister.

Though we come to love Khal Drogo, he started out as public enemy number one as he continuously raped Dany. She showed us how strong she was mentally by escaping her brother, then basically not only taking the name of Khaleesi but also living up to the duties of it. She grew to love the Khal truly, learned to speak

Dothraki and learned how to lead. Daenerys quickly grew to be able to command her people and lead them long after the death of Khal Drogo.

Dany was a boss when she stood up to countless men who treated her like a useless woman. Like her power resided in her (long af) title and not in herself. It doesn't take just anyone to raise the last three dragons in all the world. It takes a woman who can be strong and loving all at once. Look back at everything that she has done and all of it ties into how strong she is.

All of her struggle and all of her confrontations helped us build up that strong and powerful boss woman that we came to know and love as our Daenerys.

One of the most Khaleesi worthy things to happen and something that will stick with me for a long time (and made me bawl) was during the third episode in season eight. It never truly hit me that the Dothraki were really in Westeros until they were sent off into battle.

It stuck out as such a profound thing to me because the Dothraki are terrified of the ocean and water; that is why they have conquered only Essos. These men, terrified of the ocean, had such love, trust, and commitment to their queen that they pushed aside their fear and helped her fight for what she wanted. They could have easily said no, they might have been burnt to a crisp, but they could have said no. They didn't.

Dany was a great Khaleesi and we all know it. She was brave and strong, soft and loving. She was everything that we needed in a leader for the Seven Kingdoms when the show started that we all put our faith in her.

The ending might not be what we really wanted for her or for Westeros, but we cannot deny the fact that she was a boss ass bitch and that is the truth,

I will be wearing my 'Mother of Dragons' gear because of what she stood for. Our endings do not always have to define us and her actions leading up to the end make me proud to wear her sigil. I love Dany for who she was and we cannot let the ending obscure what she once was to us. A great and powerful Khaleesi.

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Until I made this list, I didn't realize how absurdly close my roommate and I were. #sorrynotsorry

Let's be real: you and your roommate have said these things at least one to each other.

1. "Can you turn the light off?"

2. "We probably shouldn't go out for dinner again...right?"

*Complains about not having money* *Spends $8 on Chipotle three times a week*

3. "I always pick where we go"

This is a fight you have with your roommate almost every day when you're roommate is as indecisive as mine.

4. "Do you have my keys?"

5. "Can you pick me up?"

6. "Is it hot in here?"

7. "Does this outfit look stupid?"

The answer is usually yes. No offense.

8. "Can you throw this out for me?"

9. "Can we get ice cream?"

10. "I need coffee."

This text is usually sent when you know your roomie is out running errands... errands you know are near a Starbucks.

11. "Can you tell me what happened?"

12. "Are you asleep?"

There have been times where I couldn't tell if you were asleep or dead... and I had to say this out loud to check if you were alive.

13. "Check your DM's."

*Cracks up in the middle of nowhere* *Catches a weird stare from your roomie across the room*

14. "Can you plug this in for me?"

15. "Can you pick a movie?"

Another instance where "I always pick" happens.

16. "Look at this girl's Instagram."

*Chucks phone across the room at roommate*

17. "Can you call me?"

18. "Can we meet up?"

19. "Can you help me find my phone?"

*Tries to leave the house to do something* *Loses phone* Every. Time.

20. "What should we do tonight?"

*Tries to get ready to do something fun* *Ends up staying in for another girls' night*

21. "Why isn't everyone as great as us?"


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5 Mantras To Recite As Told By Tina Belcher

Ask yourself, "what would Tina do?"


There are those mornings where you just can't seem to find the strength to get on with your day. You might stand in front of the bathroom mirror and tell yourself, "it's going to be a great day," or "you've got this," but those are all bland and meaningless statements.

What would the Belcher family say to get their mornings off to a good start? Would they all crowd together in their little bathroom and stare at the same tiny mirror, reciting those spineless mantras they saw on an inspirational poster in Mr. Frond's office? No, they wouldn't and neither should you. More importantly, what would Tina say?

She'd stand tall and proud, groan a little, and probably let her diary know that whatever she just said out loud is terribly inaccurate to her real feelings.

Here are five-morning mantras to recite if you're a big fan of Tina Belcher.

1.  "Your ass is grass and I'm gonna mow it."

2.  "I'm no hero, I put my bra on one boob at a time like everyone else."

3. "I am a smart, strong, sensual woman."

4. "You're a badass, protective, queen bee alien with acid for blood."

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