Thinking back to recruitment week, it flew by. I remember there being so much excitement and nervousness. Even though it's a cliche saying, I did find my "home" and am happy with how everything turned out. As a note, this is completely my experience and while it was an amazing week for me, I understand that others may have different views. If you are debating on going through sorority recruitment, here are some of the reasons why I believe it's a life-changing week.
1. You feel valued and important.
Being a Potential New Member (PNM), I felt welcomed when walking into each room. Knowing that these sororities where genuinely interested in me allowed me to open up and figure out which one I fit best with. I loved everything about my conversations, whether it was small talk or deep conversations. By the last night, I knew I wanted to be part of Greek life.
2. You learn about what it's like to be a Panhellenic woman.
My favorite topic throughout recruitment was learning about what it would mean if I became a Panhellenic woman. For example, what philanthropy I would be supporting, what my responsibilities would be, and how joining a sorority helps you grow as a person. All this sparked my interest and had me wanting to learn more.
3. You start making connections on day one.
From the girls that are in your recruitment group and you stand in line with to the girls recruiting, you will start making friendships from the time you walk in the door. That's what I love about recruitment week. Everything was so new and exciting, and I loved getting to know someone new. I saw potential friendship and that's what excited me.
4. You find your "forever home."
While this may be cliche, it's so true. It's a long week, but it's also such a rewarding week. By the end, you will hopefully find where you are meant to be and begin a bond with your sisters. Knowing that I have so many sisters that I can go to is comforting.
5. No matter what, you will gain experience in communication.
Going through recruitment gave me skills in effective communication, which will help in interviews and everyday conversations. You will talk all day for three days. You have to sell yourself and ask questions to figure out if this is something you want to go through with, which is very similar to the interview process.
I see so many benefits with going through recruitment. It changed me, and I hope it changes you. I understand that this experience might not work out for everyone, but be proud that you tried it out and took a chance. If you did find your "forever home," cherish recruitment week. If you're debating on whether or not to go through recruitment, I say go for it. Take a chance because you never know what might come from it.
