Why Social Studying Is Important

Why Social Studying Is Important


For the past few weeks, the library has been my home. I wish I could say I was exaggerating, but even as I write this article, I’m sitting here, at a table on the second floor, with the hefty knowledge that I will be here for at least four more hours. My backpack is set in its usual slouch, my books are splayed across the desk, I’m taking up an inordinate amount of room, and I’ve just sunk to a new low: I ate dinner in the library. But hey, I’m ready to roll!

The only thing getting me through the catastrophic wave of midterms is the fact that my suffering is not alone. Every night, my friends and I cop a table, bringing snacks, coffee, and water, and get down to business. And, I can assure you, there’s no other group of people I’d rather knock back seven cups of lukewarm coffee with!

If I’m being completely honest, I wouldn’t be able to handle late nights at the library if I was here alone. The library is somewhat (very, very, very) depressing, and has a vibe of failed tests, sleepless nights, and stress. Without the presence of other people, I’d probably go crazy and let everything overwhelm me. Just the simple presence of people that I know and love helps me get through hours of menial memorization.

While studying is important, so is your social and mental health. By studying in a group, you can get in social time while still doing your work, killing two birds with one stone! Social studying offers a bangin’ support system. My friends can not only tell me when we should take a study break, but they can tell me when to knock it off and get back to work. They offer motivation and support that I wouldn’t get if I was holed up in a lonely box, studying by myself.

Last year, I refused to study with other people, and I found that after a mere hour or two I was ready to cry and go home. I was too busy feeling sorry for myself to suck it up and study. This year, I’ve embraced social studying, and I can go for five to six hours with only minimal complaint!

And hey...what’s better than studying with friends? Studying with friends who are in the same classes as you! I find that when I can bounce ideas off of other people or ask them questions, I learn the material better. Plus, one of the best ways to learn a subject is to teach other people, so even if they aren’t answering my questions, simply by answering theirs I can master the material.

Studying in the library is, to put it gently, absolutely terrible. My last midterm is on Thursday, so I’m excited for the small break I can take from the library. Maybe I’ll go to bed before 1 AM..?? Stay tuned! But, if I’m being honest, there are little things I’ll miss, like making stupid jokes in the wee hours of the morning, drinking an unhealthy amount of peppermint mochas, that feeling when you finally understand a problem, and the feeling of solidarity when we all suffer… together.

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10 Things I Threw Out AFTER Freshman Year Of College

Guess half the stuff on your packing list doesn't really matter

I spent the entire summer before my freshman year of college so WORRIED.

I also spent most of my money that summer on miscellaneous dorm stuff. I packed the car when the time finally came to move in, and spent the drive up excited and confused about what the heck was actually going on.

Freshman year came and went, and as I get ready to go back to school in just a few short weeks (!!), I'm starting to realize there's just a whole bunch of crap I just don't need.

After freshman year, I threw out:

1. Half my wardrobe.

I don't really know what I was thinking of owning 13 sweaters and 25 T-shirts in the first place. I wear the same five T-shirts until I magically find a new one that I probably got for free, and I put on jeans maybe four times. One pair is enough.

2. Half my makeup.

Following in the theme of #1, if I put on makeup, it's the same eyeliner-mascara combination as always. Sometimes I spice it up and add lipstick or eyeshadow.

3. My vacuum.


One, I basically never did it. Two, if I REALLY needed to vacuum, dorms rent out cleaning supplies.

4. Most of my photos from high school.

I didn't throw them ALL away, but most of them won't be making a return to college. Things change, people change, your friends change. And that's okay.

5. Excess school supplies.

Binders are heavy and I am lazy. I surprisingly didn't lose that many pens, so I don't need the fifty pack anymore. I could probably do without the crayons.

6. Cups/Plates/Bowls/Silverware.

Again, I am lazy. I cannot be bothered to wash dishes that often. I'll stick to water bottles and maybe one coffee cup. Paper plates/bowls can always be bought, and plastic silverware can always be stolen from different places on campus.

7. Books.

I love to read, but I really don't understand why I thought I'd have the time to actually do it. I think I read one book all year, and that's just a maybe.

8. A sewing kit.

I don't even know how to sew.

9. Excessive decorations.

It's nice to make your space feel a little more cozy, but not every inch of the wall needs to be covered.

10. Throw pillows.

At night, these cute little pillows just got tossed to the floor, and they'd sit there for days if I didn't make my bed.

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I'm Not The Person I Was In High School And I'm Not Sorry I Changed

I'm sorry, the old me can't come to the phone right now.


If those who knew me in high school hung out with me now, they probably wouldn't recognize me. If my friends from college hung out with me around two years ago, they probably wouldn't recognize me. It's safe to say I've changed... a lot. I definitely find the change to be for the better and I couldn't be happier with the person I've become.

In high school, I would sit at home every night anxiously waiting to leave and go out. Now, honestly, going out is the last thing I want to do any night of the week. While everyone in college is at a fraternity party or at the bars, I prefer to sit at home on the couch, watching Netflix with my boyfriend. That's an ideal night for me and it is exactly the opposite of what I wanted to do a couple of years ago. There's nothing wrong with going out and partying, it's just not what I want to do anymore.

I craved attention in high school. I went to the parties and outings so I could be in Snapchats and photos, just so people would know I was there. I hung out with certain groups of people just so I could say I was "friends" with so-and-so who was so very popular. I wanted to be known and I wanted to be cool.

Now, I couldn't care less. I go to the bars or the parties if I really feel like it or if my friends make me feel bad enough for never going anywhere that I finally decide to show up. It's just not my scene anymore and I no longer worry about missing out.

If you could look back at me during my junior year of high school, you probably would've found me searching for the best-ranked party schools and colleges with the best nearby clubs or bars. Now, you can find me eating snacks on the couch on a Friday night watching the parties through other peoples' Snapchats.

Some may say that I'm boring now, and while I agree that my life is a little less adventurous now than it was in high school, I don't regret the lifestyle changes I've made. I feel happier, I feel like a better person, I feel much more complete. I'm not sorry that I've changed since high school and I'm not sorry that I'm not living the typical "college lifestyle." I don't see anything wrong with that life, it's just not what makes me happy and it's not what I want to do anymore.

I've become a different person since high school and I couldn't be happier about it. I have a lot that's contributed to the change, but my boyfriend definitely was the main factor as he showed me that staying in can be a million times better than a night out. My interests and my social cravings have completely transitioned into that of an 80-year-old grandma, but I don't regret it.

Change doesn't have to be a bad thing. In fact, it can bring a lot more happiness and comfort. The transition from high school to college is drastic, but you can also use it as an opportunity to transition from one lifestyle to another. I don't regret the lifestyle flip I made and I couldn't be less apologetic about it.

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