Sleep, School, Social Life: Pick 2

Sleep, School, Social Life: Pick 2

Which would you choose?

My senior year of high school, my theatre company did a set of student written shows called the BLOOM Theatre Project. These plays are typically geared towards younger kids, but this year, a certain part hit home.

One of the shows was entitled Venus Transit, written by Paige McWilliams. In the show, the main character, Chris, says,

"You ever see those triangles; they’re usually on the internet and have something written at the end of each point? Enough sleep, a social life, or good grades. Those are your options and you can only pick two. Which would you pick?"

This might sound a little crazy, but this past week, it's become so much more of a reality. With the craziness of recruitment, classes starting, and just adjusting to life back at school, all three of these have never been an option. I wake up, go straight to class, then straight to recruitment practice, and then there's pounds of homework. Sometimes I have time for dinner, on a good day.

Some might argue that this is just the very beginning of the year and that after recruitment is over, it'll all calm down. But will it?

It seems as if nowadays, we're always going, going, going. I'll stop to talk to someone on campus and 99% of the time, they're on their way to somewhere else, whether it be class, work, an internship, etc. No one is ever just sitting. There's homework to do, meetings to attend, classes to go to. Most of us have to get jobs to just be able to pay our way through college.

That's where the choice comes in: sleep, social Life, homework. Which two do you choose? If I choose social life and sleep, I fail my classes. If I choose homework and sleep, I never get to go out and have fun. If I choose social life and homework, where's the time to sleep?

And does it ever end?

We graduate college and immediately have to find a job. How else are we going to start paying back our student loans?

It seems as if we never get a chance to just breathe. But what choice do we have?

I could say, "Hey, let's just do nothing today." But that's a scary thought, isn't it? Because we don't know "nothing." It's impossible to think about not thinking about everything you have to do, because there's just so much of it. But, that's how the vicious cycle begins.

Balance is the key here. It's just a hard concept to grasp, yet it's what we all need. We need to learn how to dedicate an equal amount of time to the three sides of that triangle. That's going to come with some consequences, of course. For instance, if I choose to get enough sleep one night, it might lead to not finishing all of my homework or missing out on something with my friends. But if we don't make these sacrifices, we'll never be able to be completely happy or live our lives to the fullest.

Choose to stay in one night to finish your homework. Choose to get enough sleep instead of finishing that last assignment. Choose to go out and risk losing a few hours of sleep every now and then. Those are the choices you might have to make that lead to the consequences you'll have to deal with. Yet, maybe that's okay. Maybe, just maybe, that's the key to finding this balance we crave.

To make this balance possible, those consequences are going to have to be dealt with. I believe that if we're able to balance our lives well, the consequences will be worth it. If we all strive to balance our lives out, maybe, just maybe, we'll actually be able to choose all three sides of the triangle.

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Austin Alexander Burridge, Volunteer Advocate, Shares 3 Great Reasons to Volunteer and Help Others

Austin Alexander Burridge is an avid academic who studies Environmental Science at Winona State University and believes that work in the service of others is a key pillar to personal development.


Sometimes it's easy for someone to adopt a "me, me, me" attitude. While focusing on oneself, a person may feel nice in the moment, but serving and helping others will bring lasting benefits. While there are many great reasons to serve and help others, there are three universal truths that resonate with volunteers around the globe.

Austin Alexander Burridge's 3 Reasons to Volunteer:

1. Accomplishment

Often, people fall into a trap of focusing on themselves when they are feeling down. Maybe someone did not get a job they wanted. Or perhaps a person gets dumped by an expected lifelong companion. Maybe someone feels they have underachieved after looking at Facebook and seeing great things a high school classmate has accomplished. When feeling down, helping others is a proven way to improve one's mood and attitude, and it can provide a sense of pride and accomplishment. The act of giving to those in need is an inherently good action and leaves people with a wonderful feeling of joy.

2. Gratitude

One can become more appreciative of life by serving others that have less. Whether volunteering at a soup kitchen, visiting the elderly at an assisted living center, or helping families after a natural disaster, service enables people to be grateful for what they have. Seeing people who have fewer advantages, especially those who are spirited and thankful for small things, allows one to realize just how fortunate he/she is in life.

3. Friendships

Volunteering is a great way to build meaningful friendships, not only with other volunteers but also with those who are served. One of the most profound and fascinating aspects of these relationships is how volunteers will learn from those served and vice versa. As these special bonds are built, they lead to impactful connections that last for years to come.

Of course, these are just a few reasons to volunteer and serve others. One can never go wrong by helping others as opposed to merely focusing on oneself. Volunteering invariably and inevitably contributes to personal growth, development, and satisfaction.

About Austin Alexander Burridge: Helping others has been of paramount importance to Austin, and as a part of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA), Austin gave back to the community around him. He also has participated in annual peanut butter drives, The Minnesota Sandwich Project for the Homeless and collected canned goods for local food shelters. Additionally, Austin has a passion for the environment, which he pursued when visiting the Galapagos Islands, Ecuador, and the Amazon Rain Forest while studying at the School of Environment Studies, which investigates ecological systems and their sustainability

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Supporting Late-Term Abortion Is Actually The Opposite Of Feminism

Feminism is about gender equality and women supporting women- so shouldn't we support the unborn women of tomorrow?


Before you read this, if you are someone who feels strongly that abortions are the "right" choice and that supporting late-term abortions is a step for woman anywhere, I do not suggest you read this article. However, I do want to write that I support conditional abortions- situations where the birth can kill the mother or where conception occurred because of rape. If someone rapes you, that is not okay by any means, and a baby conceived of rape can be terminated by the mother to avoid PTSD, anxiety, depression, panic attacks, and any other mental health diagnoses. Of course, if a woman can bring a baby into the world to keep or give up for adoption, even if it was the product of rape, she should seek life for the innocent child rather than death. And what a rape victim chooses to do is neither here nor there- and it damn well is not anyone else's business.

So why should it be my business (or anyone's) if women have late-term abortions? Agreeing to murder out of convenience should not be societally accepted as okay. When the law passed in New York for late-term abortions, I did not picture 39-week pregnant women rushing to Planned Parenthood to abort their child because they got cold feet. I highly doubt that is the exact scenario for which the law went into effect for, and that was more so intended for women who did not realize they were pregnant and missed the time period to get a legal abortion.

Not that I support early-term abortion, because all abortion is the same regardless of when it happens during the pregnancy. Killing someone sooner rather than later does not make it less worse.

Excuses about how women are not ready to be mothers, do not have the financial means, would ruin their futures, they would get kicked out, lose their bodies, etc. are just that- excuses. Carrying a child for nine months might be an inconvenience, but killing someone will be on your conscience forever. If murders pleaded their motives to police as a way to justify what they did (excluding self-defense), what difference is it if a woman kills her unborn child?

Planned Parenthood might be taboo and have a stigma attached to it, but it does so much more than kill babies. Planned Parenthood is a place where girls can go to see OB/GYNO, get birth control, and learn about safe sex, protection, STDs, etc. Instead of stigmatizing it, young women should be encouraged to go to this institution for woman and feminism. Let high school health classes plan field trips there so that everyone becomes more educated on female health (boys included!). Female health education is very limited, especially in school, and many women feel that an abortion is their only way out, however, it's not. By becoming more educated, the rate of teen pregnancies can go down, as well as the need for abortions. Women educating other women should be the goal of Planned Parenthood, and abortions should be reserved for those who got raped or whose pregnancy cause death, health complications, etc.

Abortion might be giving women a choice- but who is giving the unborn babies a choice?

And of course the only way to 100% prevent pregnancy is abstinence, and if that is your choice then good for you, and if you choose to have sexual intercourse, good for you too. Be safe. No slut shaming here. Women need to continue supporting other women, regardless of their sex life. Women who have abortions are not "whores" and should not be labeled as such- they are just people whose biology reacted to another person's biology.

If you truly do not want to have a baby, please please please give it up for adoption and do not kill it. It did nothing wrong, and yeah, it might be a little inconvenient to be pregnant, especially if you are in school, but there are hundreds of thousands of people that would love nothing more than to raise your baby. Be a woman supporting other woman and give the gift of motherhood.

If you take away anything from this article it's this:

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