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10 Signs He Is Not The One

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10 Signs He Is Not The One
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10. He drives a nice car

What was the first thing out of his mouth that he said to you? Did he mention that he drives a Mercedes, a new one? Or did he compliment you? Let that one sink in a little bit.

9. Listens to rap music that degrades women

No one likes to be degraded, especially us women. Sadly, society has sexualized us for many years. Will anyone stop this disrespect?

8. Doesn't allow food to be eaten in his car

Will he not even let you eat in his nice car? If not, then that's a huge sign. All men know that food is the best way to our hearts. So, honey, he ain't after your heart if this is the unfortunate case.

7. Argues with your friends, constantly


Does he, or has he, argued with any of your friends? If so, ouch! What a terrible mistake he has made. You should probably stick to being on your friend's side.

6. Brags about himself


Does he brag about how he has these "great" scholarships? Golf, for example... Does he brag about his money? His nice car? His life? But doesn't brag about you? Well then sugar, get out while you can.

5. Conceited

Has he mentioned how great his suit may match his Mercedes' seat belts (or vise versa)? Does he ask you if he's cute non-stop without ever telling you that you're cute yourself? That's how you know he's conceited and selfish!

4. Cares more about his car than your own safety

Has he ran a red light yet? Has he ever made sure you're buckled? Or has he followed all safety rules to make sure you're okay without worrying about his car? If ya'll were ever in a wreck or had any mishaps, and his first reaction is, "My car!" Then that's a total no. You're relationship is totaled.. (LOL)

3. Won't take you to meet his family

How long have you two been dating? Usually if a guy is really into you, he'll take you to meet his parents at least after 4 weeks. If it's been longer, then chances are they already met his other girlfriend.

2. Not a man of God

Does he pray often? Go to church often? Read any of his bible, ever? If so, he's a keeper. Knowing each others' faith and respecting each other for what they believe is not a sign that he's wrong. If this is the case, he may just be the one.

1. Doesn't have a job

How is he paying for college without a job? Is it daddy's money? If so, then it may be that pretty much every last thing he has belongs to his dad. Honestly, you need someone that can be successful without the help of their father.


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