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10 Signs You Should've Already Been Over Him, Sis

He's not even that cute.

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10 Signs You Should've Already Been Over Him, Sis
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1. He probably stopped caring before you did.


I know it’s a sad reality, but he probably ended the relationship in his head before he ended it with you. There’s no reason to be hanging on to something that isn’t there.

2. You're better off without him.

How many things did you stop doing or stop yourself from doing because you were in a relationship? Honey, go hike that mountain, try that new type of food, spend all day in bed. Do something that makes you happy.


3. The best has yet to come.

If things didn’t work out, it’s probably for a reason. Something better is coming your way, so get over this one that didn’t work out. It's something to celebrate, am I right?

4. He doesn't deserve you.

Did you start wearing makeup, changing the way you dress or become his second mother? Now that you’re gone, he might be realizing all of these things you did for him. Needless to say, use your energy doing something else to benefit you.

5. This too shall pass.

I can guarantee that you probably have survived something much worse than this, and you survived that. Therefore, keep in mind that this will get better, and you can do it. The best and worst days of your life haven’t happened yet, so let's try not to make this one of them.

6. He's not that cute.

Yeah, I know that you think he’s the sun, moon, and the stars right now, but when you’re walking down the aisle looking at your future husband- that man will be your universe.

7. God has a better plan

He really does, in the grand scheme of things. This is just a little bump in the long road of your life. God is truly in control, and he will carry you through this.

8. A piece of cheesecake is probably better.

I know this sounds harsh, but most of the time, a piece of cheesecake will usually make me happier than a boy ever will.

9. He wasn't protecting your heart.

Men are created by God to protect your heart, sis. If he has you feeling like you ripped a whole layer of skin was ripped off you, he’s not the one. Your heart will be in good hands when you find the person designed to protect it.

10. He wasn't there when you needed him.

I know it’s obvious, but his reliability in a physical or emotional way wasn’t 100%. You deserve someone who’s there for you all of the time.

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