Sadly, Separating Families in Our Country is Nothing New

Sadly, Separating Families in Our Country is Nothing New

Political affiliation does not determine our leaders policies on illegal immigration


This past month, the issue of families being separated and held in detention centers has become much of the buzz in our day to day news. However, even though Trump has been cracking down with his zero-tolerance policy for "illegals" in our country, he is not the first president to do so. In fact, under former President Obama's administration, as early as in 2014, Obama had many children detained, sometimes even without their families after a sudden surge of immigrates came racing across our borders four years ago. However, it seems all of these deportations and detainments under Obama's administration just go unnoticed now that Trump is reinforcing a similar policy. I recently spoke to a native Mexican middle-aged man who had four children who were all raised in a town over from me from birth. He and his family were dirt poor and after a terrible divorce between his parents, he was left to fend for his family and be the breadwinner. However, after marrying and having children in America and living in our country for over 20 years, he was almost deported under the Obama administration for being "illegal". While he had no criminal record and a family to provide for and bills to pay, just like us all, he was shown no symphony and was held in prison for over two years.

During that time his family had no income besides from his wife who worked at a local hotel. Furthermore, two of his children were almost ready to start college and he missed many important milestones in their lives. Understandably so, he did break the law many years ago as a young boy trying to provide for his broken family, but why should he endure this much pain and suffering? Luckily for him, he was released but he suffers from PTSD to this day from the trauma. Knowing that kind and hard-working men, women, and even children like him are still suffering under the harsh laws and policies of our country makes me sick. While I am conservative Republican, I cannot say I support the dehumanizing way we rally up the illegal immigrants of our country and throw them into cages. I also can't understand why people still think you're automatically a Democrat if you are against detention centers for illegals, when Obama was a Democrat who, just like Trump tore families apart and left people alone in their native country after not being there for in (some cases) decades. Ultimately, I hope that our country can become more compassionate towards our neighbor's struggles and work to not despise and or complain about those who came here illegally. At the end of the day, who are we to judge? We all came to America looking for a second chance and for an opportunity to succeed, whether it was in 1710 or 2010. So with this being said, I hope all of those who hold hostile feelings towards our country's illegals can find some compassion in their hearts to help make our country strong from the bottom-up instead of tearing it apart in the same backward fashion.


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I'm The College Girl Who Likes Trump And Hates Feminism, And Living On A Liberal Campus Is Terrifying

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.


I will get right to the point: being a conservative on a liberal college campus in 2019 downright terrifying.

At my university, I'm sure about 90% of the population, both students and faculty, are liberals. They are very outspoken, never afraid to express their views, opinions, and feelings in several ways. There are pride events for the LGBT community, a huge celebration for MLK day, and tons of events for feminists.

Then there's the minority: the conservatives. The realists. The "racists," "bigots," and "the heartless." I am everything the liberals absolutely despise.

I like Donald Trump because he puts America first and is actually getting things done. He wants to make our country a better place.

I want a wall to keep illegals out because I want my loved ones and me to be safe from any possible danger. As for those who are genuinely coming here for a better life, JUST FILL OUT THE PAPERWORK INSTEAD OF SNEAKING AROUND.

I'm pro-life; killing an infant at nine months is inhumane to me (and yet liberals say it's inhumane to keep illegals out…but let's not get into that right now).

I hate feminism. Why? Because modern feminism isn't even feminism. Slandering the male species and wanting to take down the patriarchy is just ridiculous.

I hate the media. I don't trust anyone in it. I think they are all biased, pathological liars. They purposely make our president look like the devil himself, leaving out anything good he does.

I will not sugarcoat it: I don't feel safe on my own campus.

I mostly keep my opinions to myself out of fear. When I end up getting one of my "twisted" and "uneducated" thoughts slip out, I cringe, waiting for the slap in the face.

Don't get me wrong; not everyone at my university is hostile to those who think differently than they do.

I've shared my opinions with some liberal students and professors before, and there was no bloodshed. Sure, we may not see eye to eye, but that's okay. That just means we can understand each other a little better.

Even though the handful of students and faculty I've talked to were able to swallow my opinions, I'm still overwhelmed by the thousands of other people on campus who may not be as kind and attentive. But you can't please everybody. That's just life.

Your school is supposed to be a safe environment where you can be yourself. Just because I think differently than the vast majority of my peers doesn't mean I deserve to be a target for ridicule. No one conservative does. Scratch that, NO ONE DOES.

I don't think I'll ever feel safe.

Not just on campus, but anywhere. This world is a cruel place. All I can do is stand firm in my beliefs and try to tolerate and listen to the clashing opinions of others. What else can I do?

All I can say is... listen. Be nice. Be respectful of other's opinions, even if you strongly disagree. Besides, we all do have one thing in common: the desire for a better country.

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Dear Young Voices Of America, Stand Up, Speak Up, And Do Something

Our time is now.


Dear young voices of America, I think we can both agree that we are sick of being told we are America's future while simultaneously being told our opinions don't matter. Now I personally do not listen to the people that tell me I'm better seen than heard; however, I know there are people that are a little timider when it comes to raising their voices. I am here to encourage you to be loud and speak up on topics that matter to you. There is no better time than the present to make your voice heard. Whether you are advocating for change in your school or the government, your opinion matters and is relevant.

We are the future of our country. How are we supposed to evoke change and reform if we can't have our voices heard? I call bullshit and I think it's time to take action. Even if you're the first or only person to advocate for your cause, be that person. Don't be afraid of anyone that tries to stand in your way. The only person that can stop you from speaking up for yourself and your cause is you. No matter how many nos you have to hear to get a yes or how many doors you have to knock on to get someone to open up, never give up. Never give up on your cause, never give up on yourself or the people you're representing, just don't do it. There is someone out there that supports you. Maybe they're just too shy to raise their voice too. Be encouraging and be supportive and get people to take a stand with you.

It is never too early or too late to start thinking about your future or to take action. But don't hesitate to say something. The sooner you start speaking up, the sooner you have people joining you and helping you, and the sooner you start to see and experience change. So get up, make that sign, write that letter, make that phone call, take part in that march, give that speech. Do whatever you feel fit to get your point across. Shout it from the rooftops, write it on your profile, send it in a letter, ignore everyone that tries to tell you to give up. Maybe they don't understand now, maybe they don't want to listen, maybe they're afraid to listen, but the more you talk about it and help them understand what exactly you are trying to get across, they will join you.

Even when it feels like you have nobody on your side but yourself, I am on your side. I will cheer you on, I will march with you hand in hand, I will write letters and make phone calls and help you find your voice. My life changed when I found my voice and yours will too.

So dear young voices of America, the time is now. Your time is now. Don't be afraid of the obstacles that you may have to face. Someone is out there waiting for you, waiting to grab your hand and march on with you. As Tarana Burke once said "Get up. Stand up. Speak up. Do something."

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