Lately, almost every time I log onto any social media platform, I am greeted by images of short statements or poems about why your 20's are "a time to be selfish." Apparently, your twenties are a time to do whatever you want whenever you want and you can worry about the consequences later on down the road.
I disagree.
Be selfish? All our entire childhood, we are taught the exact opposite. We are told "sharing is caring" or to help friends in need, not to act without thinking and do as we please without considering the feelings of others. We are taught our entire lives to put others first, but I've found that it seems we now live in a generation that encourages worrying exclusively about our own wants and needs. So many people have become obsessed with themselves and their appearance both in person and online.
While I can't say that I've never cared about the amount of likes I get on a picture I post on Instagram, I can say I realize there is more to life than my popularity on social media or just living for myself. Personally, I think the most rewarding thing we can do is help others. I feel my best when I know I am giving back, whether it's something small or something that will make an impact on a lot of people. There is so much happening in the world right now, so many people that need help, that I find it impossible and unfair to ignore everyone else and do simply what only benefits me.
Our twenties are a time with little strings attached, a time of freedom to be able to do and give so much. I think this entire decade of a life would be wasted on solely selfish endeavors. While I agree that everyone should take time for themselves to relax and to do what makes them happy, I think our lives have a greater purpose. I think human nature is to love, to create, to share things and experiences with others.
I am a true believer that "happiness is only real when shared." I can live selfishly as long as I want, but I don't think I would ever really be happy unless I was sharing that happiness with someone else. A life lived with no other intention than making myself happy seems empty. I want to live a life that is full of giving to others, whether that is time, talent, or love.
Ten years is a long time to be selfish. I'd rather spend those years creating a life I can be proud of.
How will you spend your life?
