How you can travel a lot too

My Secret To Being Able To Travel So Much

Truth is, it's no secret. Just common sense.


I get asked all the time how I am able to travel so much. So far this year, I have visited multiple cities and countries! In January, I went to Boston and Rhode Island. I traveled back home to South Carolina in the spring. In May I had crazy weekends that included going to Connecticut, and road tripping down to Panama City Beach, FL

Out of the normal traveling, I went on my honeymoon to Italy, France, and Spain! Just a word of advice, cruising is a very efficient way to travel and see more than one place at a time. After that, I took my husband to my hometown in Maine. This past weekend I visited NYC and this coming Friday I will be flying to Austin, TX.

This year will conclude with maybe another trip back home to the south and Christmas in Chicago. While all of that sounds glorious, it was exhausting at times. Long car rides, delayed flights, lonely train rides, but that is what it takes if you want to see the world. A small price to pay to be cultured and travel.

My not so secret, secret #1 is my job. I am beyond blessed with my career. I am able to work from home or wherever I get cell phone signal and wifi. So 90% of the time, when I am off seeing the world, I am still on the phone answering emails and taking phone calls. I just never posted about that, so you, in turn never see it.

Secret #2 is saving money, I am a hoarder when it comes to money, which is good and bad. Sometimes you have to say no to the new purse so that you can afford another bus ticket. You have to save for what you want, and if you really want it, saving should be easy. You can't take your belongings with you when you go, but you can take all the memories and experiences you made.

Secret #3 is that if you can help it, never go to the same place twice. For example, my husband wanted to go back to the Carribean for a vaca and I hard-passed on that. I always tell him "We can go back, once we've been everywhere else".

Also, with that being said, get a travel partner that wants to see the world with you. Sometimes, I fly solo since I have a bit more time, but the best trips are always the ones where we are together.

Secret #4 is I moved around A LOT growing up. Due to this, I have friends and family all over the place, and I take advantage of that. "Oh, I can stay at your house and not get a hotel? SOLD!"

Last but not least, find a happy medium. My husband is a legitimate planner, with itineraries and everything. Me, on the other hand, I plan the big stuff and wing the rest. While that works for me, it drives him crazy. So find a happy medium.

Sometimes the best memories happen in between the planned stuff. So don't get too bogged down with maps and schedules. Get lost, find your own way, see the world, just don't die.

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40 Small Things That Make College Students Happy

It doesn't take much...

1. When class is canceled.

2. When the coffee shop you stop at five minutes before your 8 a.m. has a short line.

3. Coffee, coffee, coffee.

4. Open note tests.

5. Or even better, take home tests.

6. The unofficial assigned seating process that that takes place after the first week or so of classes.

7. Thursday nights. (because in college, Thursday qualifies as the weekend.)

8. Sales.

9. Or once again, even better, free things.

10. Specifically free food.

11. Dogs.

12. Dogs on campus.

13. Tailgates and Saturday afternoon football games.

14. Finding an already completed Quizlet for your exam.

15. Having an extra 30 minutes for a nap, and if you're lucky, an hour.

16. Netflix.

17. When your roommate takes out the trash.

18. Weekends after test weeks.

19. The rare blessing of a curve on an exam.

20. Getting out of class early.

21. How in college, it is socially expectable to wear a t-shirt everyday.

22. Being able to walk from class to class or eat in the dining hall without having to see anyone you know. (and thank goodness too because you probably don't look too good.)

23. Crossing things off of your to-do list.

24. Your best-friends that you make in college.

25. A full tank of gas.

26. Seeing a new face everyday.

27. Crawling back into bed after your 8 or 9 a.m. (or after any class that ends with a.m.)

28. Care packages.

29. No cover charges.

30. When adults tell you that it is okay that you have no idea what you want to do with your life yet. (regardless of what parents or your advisor may say.)

31. Pizza.

32. Finding out you weren't the only one who did poorly on the exam.

33. Deciding not to buy the textbook, and never needing it.

34. Finding the perfect gif to express how you're feeling. (Michael Scott just get it.)

35. Weekends at home because...

36. Pets.

37. Mom's home cooked pie and Dad's steak dinners,

38. Spring Break.

39. Road trips.

40. When it finally starts to cool down outside so you can show up to class dry instead of dripping in sweat.

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10 Ellie Schnitt One-Liners Every Girl In Her 20s Needs To Hear

From Sorority Girl Twitter to voice of reason real quick.


As some of you right now probably is, there once was a day I too had no idea who Ellie Schnitt was. Now she one of my all-time favorite people; and we've never even met.

In 2018, she seemingly appeared overnight on everyone's Twitter timeline. Now she's living up every current Odyssey writer's fantasy by creating content for Barstool Sports straight out of school. While some dismiss Ellie as "everything wrong with Twitter" simply for tweeting her daily thoughts, I think she's vital to the platform.

In this day and age, it's hard to be a female, especially one in their 20s. There are expectations, disappointments, laughs and tears. Now more than anything we ladies need to a have a voice in the void looking out for us and letting us know it's OK to feel how we feel because we're not alone.

Here are some one-liners every twenty-something needs to hear by another twenty-something who just gets it.

1. When you're having trouble accepting that your feelings are valid.

Let's face it, the world would be a much better place if we were just honest with everyone about what we REALLY want out of life.

2. When the world is trying to convince you that being "selfish" is a negative trait. 

Ladies, it's time we stop considering being selfish as something to be ashamed of. Sure, there are certain circumstances, but learning how to put your own needs first is part of being successful.

3. When you need a quick reality check.

Part of learning how to be selfish also involves learning when and where to be selfish. There are times when you come first, but there are also times when you need to be a pillar of support for someone else, it's only fair.

4. When men try to knock you down a peg but it's 2019.

Highlighter in 2019 is the equivalent of belly button rings and low rise jeans in the mid-2000s, if you've got it, then rock it.

5. When you feel like you never even left undergrad and life feels strangely familiar.

Despite what your Facebook and Instagram feeds seem to be telling you, it's OK not to have your life completely together directly after undergrad. Sometimes it takes a year )or a few) to know exactly what you want to do with your life, that's exactly what your 20s are for.

6. When you start to question how much you should put up with.

Why deal with someone more than you have to? Sometimes the bare necessities is all you need.

7. When you need more some self-love than usual. 

Snap a selfie when you're having a really good makeup day, heck, post it while you're at it even though you just posted a pic yesterday. Take some nudes solely for the reason to admire yourself in them, it's OK to feel yourself in 2019.

8. When you're trying to explain that you HAVE closure but also kinda don't.

You know when you're scrolling through Instagram and you see the man who was never really your man suddenly eloped with his girlfriend of five minutes and you're still having wine nights with your dog? Yeah, this describes exactly how that feels.

9. Sometimes, we all still need even more reassurance than we thought we did. 

But in the end, that "break-up" with your man that was never your man helped you grow into the person you are today. Heartbreak and all, you've grown stronger through it all.

10. And most importantly, when you need to remind yourself what the real issues in life are.

Like I said, you're in your 20s You're allowed to have fun and enjoy yourself, and most importantly scam men for free alcohol.

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