There is this perception of college that I feel is entirely incorrect. While college is fun, it isn't this four-year blackout that adults idealistically remember through the nostalgia. Currently, many students have stress, anxiety and even suicidal thoughts. It has always been a period of uncertainty, but in the past, it was always more of a temporary leave of absence from the real world; now, some current college students have more on their plate. Many are constantly holding up 40 hour weeks to combat the tidal wave of college debt that keeps rising, while others fight for a future with job security they see was not guaranteed after the recession of the past decade.
No matter what students are dealing with at home, or internally, many college students have the same feeling. That they are "running out of time." From perfecting resumes before a increasingly unknowable and unattainable security or perfecting the college experience and finding that future spouse, everyone has the impression that this is the only time that changes can be made in their lives freely.
But this, while a valid fear, is simply not true because of two factors. First, while it is important to remember time is not an unlimited quantity; it is impossible to do everything. Secondly, life does not end after your college cap and gown, like how every childlike aspect of your life did not die with you turned your tassel at your high school graduation.
Yes, the world is a scary, changing place, but the cool part of that is you can change with it. A degree is not a life path, and a resume is not an evaluation of worth. Just take in each moment but allow yourself to take a breath.
