Growing up, at one point or another, everyone wanted to be a vet, an astronaut, or a princess. As time passed and we discovered how cruel the world was, those dreams changed for some. We learned that princesses aren’t really real, but you would always be a princess in your father’s eye. Parents teach their children about love saying that if boys are mean to you they like you and about practical stuff like how to read, write, and ride a bike.
Among the many things my parents taught me were the following three things that I live by.
First is the meaning of strength.
Being strong not in the physical sense. Someone can be the biggest muscle-head and still be weak. I learned early on that strength would take you far. You have to have faith in your viewpoints. Stand tall against those who say you can’t do something or question you. Strength means fighting for your life at times, it can also be that feeling you get when you prove everyone wrong.
Second is to be proud of yourself.
Don’t let the small things get in your way. Every little accomplishment is worth acknowledging. There will be people who try to hold you back and get in your way. Keep your head up and do what makes you happy. There isn’t a better feeling then basically telling them, “I told you I could do it.”
Third is to be yourself.
You should never have to be someone you are not. If you own who you are there isn’t a thing that you won’t be able to accomplish. Love yourself. If you try to be someone you are not then you will be proud of the person you created [in a sense]. Whoever you were, are, want to be is okay- being unique is one of the best things. Just be you and you’ll go far.
My dreams changed what seemed to be every time I woke up in the morning. Upon coming to college and finding that I could influence people with writing was one of the best things ever. With the help of my parents and their support they made my dreams come true.
I was strong and never let the harsh words of others influence me. I was proud of myself. Not only for showing everyone that I could accomplish what I have but also for my struggle. Without my struggle I would not be the person I am today.
