11 Dating Rules That Millennials Have Killed
Start writing a post
popular

11 Dating Rules That Millennials Have Killed

Despite all the backlash, I'd say we're doing something right.

14724
11 Dating Rules That Millennials Have Killed
Pexels

As a young millennial, I can definitely agree with some of the shade that gets thrown our way. Yeah, we're pretty reliant on our technology, (but in our defense, we were raised this way!). When it comes to our work ethic, it's true; some of us are better than others. But amongst the continuous hypocrisy our generation faces, I must say, we have not killed dating altogether. We have killed the stupid, misogynist rules that are associated with dating, and we have killed them for the better; here are a few dating rules that millennials have surely killed for the better.

1. Only guys are able to make the first move.

Um...no. If a woman wants to introduce herself to someone she's interested in, she should be able to make the first move without being scrutinized for it. Women making the first move is something we're seeing more and more today (thanks to millennials, of course!).

2. The man should always pay.

If you're a follower of traditional dating roles, sure; maybe the guy pays on the first date. But if you've been dating for awhile, why should he go broke paying for your dinner every time the two of you dine out? Take turns or split the grocery bill and cook something at home; it's only fair!

3. Girls have to order a salad when you go out to dinner.

If a salad is your preferred food of choice, then order a salad. If you're ordering a salad because you're trying to trick your new love interest into thinking you wouldn't rather be eating his burger, you're doing it for the wrong reasons. Girl, if you want that burger, order that burger.

4. You must define the relationship as soon as possible.

Today, it's okay to just be "talking" to someone until you decide what's right for both of you. In the past, there was more pressure to be in a committed relationship right after a few dates.

5. You have to meet your S/O face to face.

Nope, not anymore. Thanks to apps like Tinder and Bumble, you can have a steady conversation going before you even meet the person. Might as well see if you're compatible before you meet face to face, eh?

6. You shouldn't go out without your boyfriend/girlfriend.

Lies! You need girls night and they need their boy time...whatever that includes, I'm not sure.

7. Women are dependent on their man.

My happiness does not depend on the man I'm with, nor should it. Women are being encouraged to launch their own success now.

8. Successful couples do everything together.

Like needing space, you need time apart to be your own person.

9. Marriage is the ultimate goal.

Nothing against marriage, but a lot of millennial couples are dating longer than ever before getting married and I think this is awesome. If you're totally in love before marriage, it's not going to change much besides your last name.

10. You shouldn't live with someone until after you're married.

What would be worse than moving in with each other once you're married and finding out you totally cannot live with this person? This is the ultimate test of a relationship.

11. People in relationships are happier than those who are single.

You can be happy on your own, or with a partner. Thanks to millennials for clarifying this...

Despite all of the backlash millennials receive about their dating lives, I'd say we're doing something right.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
the beatles
Wikipedia Commons

For as long as I can remember, I have been listening to The Beatles. Every year, my mom would appropriately blast “Birthday” on anyone’s birthday. I knew all of the words to “Back In The U.S.S.R” by the time I was 5 (Even though I had no idea what or where the U.S.S.R was). I grew up with John, Paul, George, and Ringo instead Justin, JC, Joey, Chris and Lance (I had to google N*SYNC to remember their names). The highlight of my short life was Paul McCartney in concert twice. I’m not someone to “fangirl” but those days I fangirled hard. The music of The Beatles has gotten me through everything. Their songs have brought me more joy, peace, and comfort. I can listen to them in any situation and find what I need. Here are the best lyrics from The Beatles for every and any occasion.

Keep Reading...Show less
Being Invisible The Best Super Power

The best superpower ever? Being invisible of course. Imagine just being able to go from seen to unseen on a dime. Who wouldn't want to have the opportunity to be invisible? Superman and Batman have nothing on being invisible with their superhero abilities. Here are some things that you could do while being invisible, because being invisible can benefit your social life too.

Keep Reading...Show less
houses under green sky
Photo by Alev Takil on Unsplash

Small towns certainly have their pros and cons. Many people who grow up in small towns find themselves counting the days until they get to escape their roots and plant new ones in bigger, "better" places. And that's fine. I'd be lying if I said I hadn't thought those same thoughts before too. We all have, but they say it's important to remember where you came from. When I think about where I come from, I can't help having an overwhelming feeling of gratitude for my roots. Being from a small town has taught me so many important lessons that I will carry with me for the rest of my life.

Keep Reading...Show less
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

98240
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments