11 Dating Rules That Millennials Have Killed | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
popular

11 Dating Rules That Millennials Have Killed

Despite all the backlash, I'd say we're doing something right.

14736
11 Dating Rules That Millennials Have Killed
Pexels

As a young millennial, I can definitely agree with some of the shade that gets thrown our way. Yeah, we're pretty reliant on our technology, (but in our defense, we were raised this way!). When it comes to our work ethic, it's true; some of us are better than others. But amongst the continuous hypocrisy our generation faces, I must say, we have not killed dating altogether. We have killed the stupid, misogynist rules that are associated with dating, and we have killed them for the better; here are a few dating rules that millennials have surely killed for the better.

1. Only guys are able to make the first move.

Um...no. If a woman wants to introduce herself to someone she's interested in, she should be able to make the first move without being scrutinized for it. Women making the first move is something we're seeing more and more today (thanks to millennials, of course!).

2. The man should always pay.

If you're a follower of traditional dating roles, sure; maybe the guy pays on the first date. But if you've been dating for awhile, why should he go broke paying for your dinner every time the two of you dine out? Take turns or split the grocery bill and cook something at home; it's only fair!

3. Girls have to order a salad when you go out to dinner.

If a salad is your preferred food of choice, then order a salad. If you're ordering a salad because you're trying to trick your new love interest into thinking you wouldn't rather be eating his burger, you're doing it for the wrong reasons. Girl, if you want that burger, order that burger.

4. You must define the relationship as soon as possible.

Today, it's okay to just be "talking" to someone until you decide what's right for both of you. In the past, there was more pressure to be in a committed relationship right after a few dates.

5. You have to meet your S/O face to face.

Nope, not anymore. Thanks to apps like Tinder and Bumble, you can have a steady conversation going before you even meet the person. Might as well see if you're compatible before you meet face to face, eh?

6. You shouldn't go out without your boyfriend/girlfriend.

Lies! You need girls night and they need their boy time...whatever that includes, I'm not sure.

7. Women are dependent on their man.

My happiness does not depend on the man I'm with, nor should it. Women are being encouraged to launch their own success now.

8. Successful couples do everything together.

Like needing space, you need time apart to be your own person.

9. Marriage is the ultimate goal.

Nothing against marriage, but a lot of millennial couples are dating longer than ever before getting married and I think this is awesome. If you're totally in love before marriage, it's not going to change much besides your last name.

10. You shouldn't live with someone until after you're married.

What would be worse than moving in with each other once you're married and finding out you totally cannot live with this person? This is the ultimate test of a relationship.

11. People in relationships are happier than those who are single.

You can be happy on your own, or with a partner. Thanks to millennials for clarifying this...

Despite all of the backlash millennials receive about their dating lives, I'd say we're doing something right.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Disney magic for New Year!

The "Happiest Place on Earth" has a lot of characters with some pretty great advice.

4700
Disney magic kingdom castle on new years
StableDiffusion

Disney movies are well known and very popular in today's world. Although many people appreciate the plot and the storyline, not many people appreciate the wisdom these characters possess. Every Disney movie has unique advice that can be applied to everyday life. Here are 11 Disney quotes to help start your New Year off right:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

40 Gift Ideas for the Indecisive

It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. But also a time of stressing over the perfect gift.

119063
Christmas gifts around a tree
StableDiffusion

It's officially December. There is less than a month of 2024, and I still feel like yesterday was summer. Now comes the merriest time of the year, the Christmas season.

Everyone has been waiting for this time of year since mid-October (which is way too early, in my opinion) or before. It's a time of love, family, memory-making, and gift-giving. A lot of times when I ask friends and family what they want, I get a lot of "I don't know" or "I don't care."

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Bucket List To Live In The Now

Find excitement in your life and start exploring wherever you are right here, right now.

1047
mu bucket list

I was sitting at my cubicle, now that I am an adult, looking at the rain pouring down on the windowsill, bumming on life, wishing for the rain to just stop for a full day.

There are moments where we count down the hours until work is over and how many more days till the weekend, and this many weeks until something exciting. Or something like that? Well, I was bumming because my next day off from work is not until Memorial Day weekend, which is not until the end of May. And since this is my first year out of college being a “real person,” I am totally missing the winter, spring and summer breaks. I am sure all of us have felt this way even if just for a hot minute…

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

11 Ways To Survive Finals As Told By Leslie Knope

Because you know you're going to be stressed out, and Leslie knows exactly how to survive.

753
Everything hurts and I'm dying

So finals are on their way. That's right everybody, finals are about to start.

But hey, don't panic. Start getting your affairs in order and prepare for a week of hell. Here's a few things Leslie Knope wants you to do to make your finals week just a little bit less stressful:

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

10 Signs You Go To Kent State

You know you're a true Kent Stater when...

838
Kent State University
Great Value Colleges

If you go to or went to Kent State, then more than likely you have done or will do some of these things.

1. You’ve slipped and fallen on the ice at least once.

The winters at Kent are brutal, and while the heated sidewalks and some great snow boots are always a help, there’s no chance you won’t bust it on the ice at least once in your four plus years at school.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments