Boyfriend issues, girl drama, stress over grades… there is no activity that can cure all these ailments better than some well-deserved retail therapy?? Let’s face it girlfriends… in those times of need, there is always that happy shopping place to visit that is extremely comforting (whether it’s in the mall or online). As much as a friend or loved one can help talk you through those not so great times, nothing makes the heart happier than a new pair of shoes or five.
Contrary to popular belief, purchasing material items does change your mood (definitely for the better in most cases). Although is does not mask your pain for the long haul, it most definitely puts in on the back burner while you shuffle through clothing racks or surf various delectable clothing websites. In many cases you may be indulging over retail because of a stupid boy and what better way to fix that than with your girlfriends and some credit cards?? Girlfriends are the most important people to get you through any hard times. Yes, your mom or sister will help you but no human understands like a girlfriend who is basically part of the relationship anyway. They feel your pain, literally, and will never talk you out of buying anything that is guaranteed to secure some temporary happiness.
The best part of retail therapy is the feeling you get when you try on the things you love and you feel like a boss b***h. It makes you realize that no matter what or who you are upset about, you will be okay and you are still perfect (especially in the new outfit). The price of things tend to not matter as much, which is always nice. Am I right? You deserve it, all of it. The fabulous Anthropologies tops, the overpriced jeans from Topshop you shouldn’t indulge in, the adorable Zara jacket, the Gucci bag, anything you want. You actually feel like you may have entered paradise and you deserve to indulge. In that moment it will probably be the only thing that makes you feel better and that is okay. At least until the credit card bill arrives.
Like I said before, it will not mask all the problems that will most likely still bother you in the morning. However, when you put on that new get-up you will feel different. You will feel empowered, as you should. Now I know the retail therapy cure all may seem like a delusional fantasy to most people (especially males) but I can assure that it is real. Anything to get your mind off the things that are hurting you, is worth a try. It just makes it so much better when cute clothes and shoes are assisting you in the recovery process. You can even rationalize that while helping yourself you are also helping the economy and that usually makes it a win win situation… for EVERYONE!! Whatever rationale you use… it most definitely works, I promise!
