A Reminder To My Best Friend | The Odyssey Online
Start writing a post
Relationships

A Reminder To My Best Friend

"​I know times are hard and we are far away, but here are all the things I need you to hear me say."

988
A Reminder To My Best Friend
Bobbie Hall

Dear Best Friend,

We've been apart for the past seven months. That doesn't mean we don't see each other, but in high school, we talked every day. For the past seven months, you've been an hour away from me. I thank God that we managed to stay on the same side of the state, even though it's the opposite side of the state from our hometowns. Because we are so far away, I don't get to remind you of who you are to me as often. I realized I really need to.

Best friend, you are the person I go to with my biggest problems. You go through everything with me, even now, when we're 55 miles apart. In some friendships, this might just mean boy drama. Maybe even girl drama. But we both know that the sort of stuff you and I go through is not just typical boy/girl drama. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for being there through my darkest days.

Best friend, we are so very different, but there's never been a time I felt like your values and beliefs were being pushed on me. You and I are the example I use when discussing how this world could finally manage to get along. We have different opinions, but we have a mutual respect for each other nonetheless.

Best friend, I don't know how you put up with me. Almost everyone (except my parents) constantly sees the really happy, loving side of me, or the vulnerable side. I'm sure you see it too, but you also see the constantly anxious side of me. You get to see the side of me that's sad one moment and happy the next moment. You've actually seen me mad about something. That's something so many people can't say. While most of the world only sees the beautiful parts of me, you see it all, and I thank you so much for staying with me, despite how crazy you know I am.

Best friend, while we're talking about crazy, thank you for loving my crazy. I think it's one of the best things about myself, but many people tend to disagree. You get the weirdest side of me, and you join in too. You give me the confidence to be who I really am, and you remind me that the people who don't appreciate it are the people I don't need.

Best friend, your heart is so big. I've thought for years that you are the kindest and most caring person from our class. Even though I'm closer to you now, and I know that's not always the case, I also know that you'd do anything for the people who deserve your love, and sometimes even the people who don't.

Best friend, I tell you all the time, but I'm going to do it again: A boy who makes you cry is not worth anything. It's hard to hear, especially coming from me, who never follows that rule, but still, it's so true. It's beautiful that you put your heart and soul into other people, but I hope that someday you can find a good balance between giving it your all and finally giving up. What's meant to be will be, but you should only keep the people in your life who truly enhance it,

Best friend, you are so beautiful and strong. I've admired how beautiful you are since before we were even friends. Today I notice that a part of your beauty is purely the strength inside you. You've been through so much, and sadly, I don't see it slowing down anytime soon. Still, we both know that you will continue on through the hurt and pain. I admire you for never backing down from the challenges life throws at you. Your strength makes me feel stronger.

Best friend, thank you for reminding me of your love. I rarely fear that you will abandon me. That's not something I can say about many people. Maybe it's just because I can't imagine life without you. What I really believe is that it's because you tell me you love me almost every day. I love you too, forever.

Best friend, there's so much more I could say to you, but I don't have enough time to write it, and you don't have enough time to read it. College is hard. But with you by my side, even an hour away, I know that we can both get through it.

With love, always,

Your Best Friend

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
Entertainment

Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

These powerful lyrics remind us how much good is inside each of us and that sometimes we are too blinded by our imperfections to see the other side of the coin, to see all of that good.

685415
Every Girl Needs To Listen To 'She Used To Be Mine' By Sara Bareilles

The song was sent to me late in the middle of the night. I was still awake enough to plug in my headphones and listen to it immediately. I always did this when my best friend sent me songs, never wasting a moment. She had sent a message with this one too, telling me it reminded her so much of both of us and what we have each been through in the past couple of months.

Keep Reading...Show less
Zodiac wheel with signs and symbols surrounding a central sun against a starry sky.

What's your sign? It's one of the first questions some of us are asked when approached by someone in a bar, at a party or even when having lunch with some of our friends. Astrology, for centuries, has been one of the largest phenomenons out there. There's a reason why many magazines and newspapers have a horoscope page, and there's also a reason why almost every bookstore or library has a section dedicated completely to astrology. Many of us could just be curious about why some of us act differently than others and whom we will get along with best, and others may just want to see if their sign does, in fact, match their personality.

Keep Reading...Show less
Entertainment

20 Song Lyrics To Put A Spring Into Your Instagram Captions

"On an island in the sun, We'll be playing and having fun"

583889
Person in front of neon musical instruments; glowing red and white lights.
Photo by Spencer Imbrock on Unsplash

Whenever I post a picture to Instagram, it takes me so long to come up with a caption. I want to be funny, clever, cute and direct all at the same time. It can be frustrating! So I just look for some online. I really like to find a song lyric that goes with my picture, I just feel like it gives the picture a certain vibe.

Here's a list of song lyrics that can go with any picture you want to post!

Keep Reading...Show less
Chalk drawing of scales weighing "good" and "bad" on a blackboard.
WP content

Being a good person does not depend on your religion or status in life, your race or skin color, political views or culture. It depends on how good you treat others.

We are all born to do something great. Whether that be to grow up and become a doctor and save the lives of thousands of people, run a marathon, win the Noble Peace Prize, or be the greatest mother or father for your own future children one day. Regardless, we are all born with a purpose. But in between birth and death lies a path that life paves for us; a path that we must fill with something that gives our lives meaning.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments