What An Indecisive Mind Full Of Regrets Looks Like
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What An Indecisive Mind Full Of Regrets Looks Like

A glimpse into the annoying mind of mine where I can't decide on anything.

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What An Indecisive Mind Full Of Regrets Looks Like
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How do you stop regret?

How do you know that you're making the right decision right now and that you won't regret it?

How do you prevent yourself from thinking back on the very moment you decided to switch your major and not want to hate yourself for not just toughing it out?

How do you tell future self that you will be okay or that you are sorry when you meet?

How can we be sure that the choice we are making right now is correct?

What if we are making a drastic mistake?

Is it possible to fix your mistakes after you made them?

I wish I did __________.

I wish I didn't __________.

Would you be the same person if you did or didn't do ____________?

Would my life be better if I hadn't __________?

Would I be a better person if I hadn't ______?

What is the purpose of having free will if I am just going to make mistakes?

Is the alternate version of us in one of the other billion universes happier because they chose the other option?

What is my purpose in life and how does this choice affect that?

Will this choice affect my fate?

How will my life change if I chose this one over the other one?

Who does this choice affect?

If I had stayed in Pharmacy as my major would I have been able to save more lives?

Is my purpose in life to save lives?

Do I choose between my passion or money?

Because I chose this option and not the other one, what opportunities did I miss? What opportunities did I gain?

Why am I so indecisive?

Why do I have so many questions?

What will future me be like?

Will I regret what I am doing?

Will I wish I was someone else?

Will I dream of what would have happened?

What happens if I change as a person and I wish I chose to do something else with my life?

Will I wish that I was somebody else?

If it isn't possible to predict the future so why do we even try to?

We can't. When you make a choice make sure its the right choice for the present. People say you shouldn't regret doing this because at that time you thought it was the right choice and you tried your best then.

But I think that's also nonsense. The reason we make choices in the first place is to better our future selves. That's why it's so hard. Regret is like failure. You failed to make the right choice and now you are suffering. That's why it is so painful.

But with what you know now, you fix your present. Your right now is what matters the most and the only thing that you can control. Use it to help your future; but if your future self thinks that what present self is thinking and doing is rubbish, future self will change it and fix it. Regret is like crying. It does not fix the problem. Do what you want to do right now. The present is called a present (a gift) for a reason.

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