Words could not describe how much you love a person until you experience how much they do for you. There are many reasons why your big is more than just your sorority sister. She's your rock, your best friend, and the person who helps you get through the toughest times of your life. But, here are the main reasons why your big is literally the best person ever.
1. She loves you for who you are.
Despite everything, she will have an unconditional love for you. Through your highs, your lows, your issues and your triumphs, she will love you. She will appreciate everything that you have to offer and more.
2. She, however, works on your flaws.
With that unconditional love comes the will to mold you into the best person you can be. With every flaw you come with, she works to make you the best person you can be. Whether you struggle with jealousy, grades, loving yourself, family issues, personal issues, etc. she will work to ease those flaws and make you into a more beautiful, outstanding person.
3. She buys you gifts.
Disregarding a materialistic view, everything she makes and buys is with her deepest love. Because she will buy things for you that she knows you love and reminds her of you. She feels joy in seeing the happiness you feel when she watches you open the crafts and gifts she shopped for you with love.
4. She helps you through the toughest college accommodations.
Whether you struggle with classes, getting to class, or becoming socially involved, she has a one year step of experience above you. She's ready to help you through everything she has been through and to help you grow and assimilate to the college lifestyle better than anyone else.
5. But most of all, she sees the potential in you.
She knows that you can do your best, and she pushes you every day to do your best. She sees the best version of you and will push you to pursue it. She will push you towards your goals and ambitions and never let you lose sight of the real reason why you decided to come to college: to become the person you've always wanted to be.
Having a big is more than a title. It is a relationship that will prosper into one of the most beautiful and true friendships you could ever imagine. It is the late night conversations, laughs, and tears. It is the rough times and the great times.
