Growing up in a mid-sized Midwestern town sounds like a bore to the majority of people, but to me, it has been the best experience I could have asked for. From the friendly people to the inclusive and innovative establishments not much could be better (besides having an In-N-Out).
1. You know the majority of people, but there's always someone new to meet.
I grew up in Rochester, Minnesota with a population of around 110,000 and three public high schools. Throughout my time in high school, I knew most of the other students in my class, but was always meeting new people at school functions that involved other people or through club sports teams and at summer jobs. Having a city this size allowed me to be comfortable where I spent the majority of my time, but also allows me to get out and meet new people.
2. There is always stuff going on, but not so much that you feel overwhelmed.
Not only do these cities plan activities during the summer, but make sure to include the other seasons as well. From Winterfest to apple orchards to Easter egg hunts, there is at least one activity each season to cater to the winter blues. But the real fun happens during the summer. Free concerts in the park become the norm and food and arts festivals become your Thursday afternoons.
3. It feels like a small town and an urban city at the same time.
Walking downtown makes you feel like you're in a big city—with tall buildings and boutiques. But driving less than five minutes through neighborhoods with old houses and big trees make you feel like you've not only entered a different town but a different time zone as well. The people are incredibly friendly, Minnesota nice is not a myth, and will help you when they see you struggling. If you ever get the chance to even visit a mid-sized midwestern town I would highly suggest the experience although I'm a little biased.
4. The rivalries between the high schools are always exciting.
Because there are three high schools and one large private high school, cross-town games are always an event in themselves. We feel immense pride for our school's team and have different chants made specifically for both of our rival schools. Friday nights with cross-town games are the main event in my city and the stadium is always chalk-full of buzzing energy. Not only do we have rivalries between sports teams, but between the bands and other various activities. Although the rivalry can get a little out of hand, a little bit of competition never hurt anyone, right?
5. Everything you need is always right around the corner.
There is always a Walgreens or Target less than five minutes away whenever you need emergency microwave popcorn. Because these cities are always growing, Chipotles and H&Ms alike decide to set up shop (making it very hard to keep ahold of last week's paycheck). Not only do we have chain establishments, but we have the best local restaurants and boutiques. Burger joints (Newt's is my favorite in Rochester) that are ready to serve you with a large bowl of popcorn and great customer service. There are also the best little shops with gifts you couldn't find anywhere else.
So, if you get the chance to live, or even visit a mid-sized midwestern city, I urge you to take the chance, although I'm a little biased.
