In my adult life I have never held a newborn baby, and the thought used to terrify me, honestly it still does a bit. The idea of holding such a tiny, fragile, and important life in my hands is such an immense responsibility and I've always found a way to avoid it. In a few short weeks, not only will I hold a newborn baby for the first time, but I will be holding and meeting my first niece, and I've never been more excited. I'm going to be an aunt, it's a brand new role I've never had, and I can't wait to be involved in the growing of her brilliant little mind.
1. I can basically have a kid (without the responsibility of a kid)
Aunt's get all the fun parts! I'll be able to play with my niece, love and snuggle her, and give her anything she wants, without having to be the one who has to tell her no and when it's time to go to bed! I won't ever have to be the 'mean one'. Also, I get to sleep (sorry mom and dad).
2. Aunt's hold a special place in the family
My aunt's have always been such good figures in my life to look too, almost like a much older, wiser sister, aunt's always know what's up and will always tell you the truth when you need it most. I can't wait to be a woman that my little niece looks up too, and to set good examples for her.
3. I can spoil her rotten!
I cannot wait until I can take my nice out for ice cream after dinner when no one else will, to sneak her off for a mini shopping spree, or even just let her get a little muddy playing in the garden!
4. I can help mold her mind and watch her grow.
I get to be there every step of the way to watch this little being grow into an amazingly intelligent girl, I am already so proud that she simply exists and I can only imagine the feeling will grow as I watch her accomplish goals throughout her life. I can be a part of her learning, from reading her books to simply passing on encouraging words and wisdom to her.
5. I have an excuse to act like a child again.
Aunts are the cool family members, right? Therefore, it will be absolutely acceptable to do any childlike activity with her (which, let's be honest, I'm pretty stoked about). Side walk chalk? Yes. Disney movies and blanket forts? Absolutely. I mean, there's no reason I can't do these things now, but it's always much more fun when you're sharing the experience with a young and fresh imagination.
