"If you have to convince someone to stay with you, then they have already left."
"Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value, instead of expecting a man’s love to provide you with value.”
"Swearing doesn’t make your argument valid; it just tells the other person you have lost your class and control."
"Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth."
"When your heart knows the truth, it never forgets."
"Where you hang your feelings is where you hang your focus."
“A man worth loving is a man that never makes you feel like an option.”
“I honestly do not understand women that call themselves a "bitch" (excuse my language). It doesn't empower a woman. It just reveals to everyone that you were deeply hurt at one point in life. Because of the pain you are still carrying in your heart, you will continue to hurt anyone else that reminds you of those moments when you let your guard down and were fooled. Sadly, it sends a clear message to the person that you are still hurt. If only women would realize that we all have moments of stupidity then they would stop comparing themselves to others.”
“If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them from your mind. Don’t think about their looks, the intimate moments or their personality. Now, think about how they made you feel, how they improved your life and what virtues they possess that push you to want to become better. Did they bring you closer to God? Did they bring you to your life mission? Did they ever lie to you, betray you or made it impossible for you to feel comfortable speaking your mind? When you remove all the shine from a diamond, it becomes a glass rock. What value is it then? See beneath the surface and you will know who your future is with.”
"An open Facebook page is simply a psychiatric dry erase board that screams, 'Look at me. I am insecure. I need your reaction to what I am doing, but you’re not cool enough to be my friend. Therefore, I will just pray you see this because the approval of God is not all I need.'"
