The pros and cons of having a big family can be so overwhelming at times, especially when there is tension and drama between family members. But when being a part of a family so large, you will always feel loved.
Pros
Great support. Everyone seems to have issues but with a great support system to always help, it makes life a little bit easier.
Family gatherings are very entertaining. Every room gets taken up during family-time since it’s always loud and interesting. From singing throwback songs to crazy Snapchat filter videos,
Someone is always looking out for you. You know what it feels like when you need help but are not sure where to go, you have a family member that is an expert in whatever you need.
Sharing. Sometimes you just need that perfect scarf to complete your outfit, while having a big family everyone’s closets seem to mesh together.
Cons
It is always hard explaining how someone is related to you. You seem to know everyone, but explaining how you got to know them, and why you’re close seems like an impossible task.
Family drama. There is always a big rivalry that makes some family parties very awkward but everyone just tries to ignore it and hopefully keep their own business.
It’s hard to please everyone. Everyone always has their own opinion on aspects on your life, trying to pull you toward their view.
Distance. Having a big family means everyone is split up and it is never easy for everyone to be in one place. Getting together always turns into a day event since the travel takes just as long as being together.
Even with these pros and cons, being a part of something better than yourself is pretty spectacular.
