For The Preschool Best Friend You're Missing

For The Preschool Best Friend You're Missing In College

For that childhood best friend that still puts up with all of your quirks.


In Preschool, everyone meets that one person that is absolutely going to be their best friend and nothing could tear them apart... until something tears them apart. Back in my own preschool days, I met a girl who became my best friend. We did everything together. After preschool, we ended up going to different schools and later on, I moved to Florida. This was the thing that tore us apart. Everyone has one with their preschool best friend, and odds are when you think about it, you can't even remember their name anymore.

When I moved back from Florida, my house was in a neighborhood full of kids my age. After starting school up that year, I realized that one girl in my grade looked really familiar. I can't recall exactly when we put the pieces together, but it turned out that not only was that girl my long lost preschool BFF, she was also my neighbor. That's right, the fates had spoken and placed us back in each other's lives.

We were the lucky ones, the few who get reunited. Not everyone has that chance. There was a giant open lot right between our houses. It was paradise. A huge playground to reconnect. We became best friends again and spent hours building stupid little stick teepees in that lot and reenacting the Spiderwick Chronicles in our fuzzy slippers. We even had a special call we would use to see if each other were outside. I don't know what we did to deserve the universe's kind gesture — putting us back together.

Megan Carmen

You probably have that one person that you could write an article about telling the world how awesome they are, and my preschool best friend is mine. Jordan and I have come far over the years. We've had our arguments, namely the one about homecoming freshman year, but as far as friendships go ours has been free of strife. Everyone has that one friend they don't fight with, but Jordan and I have been this way since day one.

We have the same opinions and tastes in desserts. We have realized that our taste in men is virtually opposite and that Miralax is a saving grace. We have eaten our weight in monkey bread and laughed hard enough to pop a lung. She had no idea I was writing this and when I asked her what pictures would be acceptable for the internet to see, she asked, "What is going on, are you making me a blanket?" Sorry, Jordan... I lied. There's no blanket.

Megan Carmen

All best friends have their silly things. Things you do that other people would find dumb or meaningless. I can't even begin to say all of the ridiculous names we call each other or the things that have made us laugh. We have perfected the art of peanut butter brownies and the art of bad singing. There's this stupid thing we do where we elongate song lyrics or use synonyms to make phrases sound wrong. We joke about the movie Jumanji, and we laugh the same; it's a long wheeze with lots of flailing. Most of all, I can't believe we don't have any really good pictures from the 14 years we have been friends. That is ridiculous. How is it that possible?

Megan Carmen

So If reading this made you wonder where your preschool BFF is now, or made you smile thinking about the stupid things you and your partner in crime do, then reach out to them today and let them know that you care. Sometimes the friends we see the most often are the ones that leave the fastest, and the ones from the way back days are the ones who will stick by your side. Tell your best friend how much they mean to you today, and Jordan, thank you for always being there for me and for pretending to be my sister on Sibling Weekend. Thanks for making me laugh and for helping me through the tough times.

Sorry I didn't tell you I was writing this article... surprise! But most of all, please come back soon because Preschool Best Friend, I miss you.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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To My Long-Distance Best Friend, We Might Be 7,811 Miles Apart, But Our Friendship Only Gets Stronger

It breaks my heart that I cannot be around for your birthdays or to celebrate your achievements. But I'm so proud of every milestone you achieve. I am so proud of all your accomplishments and the person you are becoming.


To my best friend,

It has been 270 days since I last met you and 206 more days until I meet you again. People say that time flies by quickly, but these have been the most difficult days that seemed to drag on forever. Five years ago when you were sitting next to me on the first day of our sociology class, I had no idea we would end up being best friends. From sharing my mother's parathas during lunch breaks to the countless sleepovers, I will never forget all the memories we created throughout high school.

I vividly remember the day I told you I would be studying abroad. You were so happy and proud of me for pursuing my dreams but also upset that we wouldn't be seeing each other every now and then. I was worried if our friendship would even last. But we have spent almost two years away from each other and our friendship only seems to get stronger.

I'm so grateful to technology for allowing us to be in touch all the time. My day doesn't feel complete if I do not receive a text from you. I know we do not video call often because of how busy our schedules are (another reason being time zones suck and I cannot do the math), but always know that I am there for you. It breaks my heart that I cannot be around for your birthdays or to celebrate your achievements. But I'm so proud of every milestone you achieve. I am so proud of all your accomplishments and the person you are becoming.

We have both had some terrible friendship experiences in our past before we met each other that have completely broken our faith in friendships. But know that you can always count on me and that I will never leave your side. Know that I will always set an alarm early in the morning just to video call you. Know that I will always be there for you (even if I'm not physically present around you). Know that you will always be the first person I share everything with.

I cannot thank you enough for everything you have done for me. Thank you for encouraging me to make new friends at college. Thank you for always being there during my failures and reminding me that it's not the end of the world and that more opportunities will come my way. Thank you for being there during my successes and being my number one cheerleader. Thank you for always reminding me to love myself. You not only have a special place in my heart but also have a special place in my family. My mother and sister not only glad that I have a best friend like you but also adore you so much. It is impossible to imagine a life without you.

I cannot wait for more butter chicken sleepover dates in December!

Lots of love,

Your best friend.

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