To me, any relationship should be one's first priority, not money. I acknowledge that just being in a relationship won't get you bread at the end of the day. However, in the 21st century, money appears to take over everything. People run and live for money for various reasons, but they often forget about being in a relationship either with their family and kids or even themselves.
If you have ever been to New York, one of the most famous cities in the world, what you see is people running for jobs 24/7. New York is one of my favorite city in the world. I often visit NYC to feel like home since I was born in a city in India. One of the weird things I've noticed is that most people are always stressed. They seemed tired of everything and still surviving. The true love and happiness were buried under the glory of city lights and skyscrapers. Here's a poem about a young woman who just had him, but missed him.
And She Just Had Him
Seemed like, She was an option
Rather than a priority
New York, a city full of excitement, joy, and people
Glamorous, Attractive, and Stylish
Day and night, Skyscrapers stand with pride
Everyone is running for money and train
Even among thousands of people, often
She found herself, empty enough
Hoping, the Sun will rise again, one day!
A good friend of her, in her mind
Too shy to express her feelings,
he doesn't know, she is willing
Forever, To fall in love with him
Once upon a time, on the day of the summer solstice
Commuting on the train, She told him all
He had the same but wasn't sure
They've been in a 'relationship,' for a while
Found herself in a do-while loop
While he gets his dream job; the primacy
She thought, he was the ONE; she's been in a fantasy
She was happy for him, but couldn't stop him
Cause she loved him!
Trying to find her way to him, but couldn't
Didn't want to be his priority, but desire
He promised her, he will marry her
It was all in his eyes, wasn't gonna come for her
Busy building links, instead of this relationship
Broken but unbroken, still standing
Was chasing for what appears to be real
She was hoping, at least he would match her effort
And she just had him, but didn't