As a big sister you realize that the role you play in your younger siblings lives is one of a best friend but also of the safe haven and sound advice on things they feel like they cannot talk to their parents about. For me, I became all of those things when my mother had my younger sister and even more when I realized that I had another younger sister by way of my father. I would like to think of myself as open-minded when it comes to my younger sisters or even a big sister that lets everything slide; however, my sisters would probably tell you that isn't true for one reason or another. As they get ready to embark on their first year of college as they both will graduate from high school very soon I find myself already missing them as the younger kids they once were. So here is my letter to them both.

Dear Princesses,

My dear little babies, it's been quite a journey so far. I loved being able to witness your growth as young ladies, and I love that I'll be able to witness you both begin yet another step in your journey as your big sister. I've always tried my best to be the best big sister you all have, and although I am sure I am not as nice as I think I am when it comes to certain things please always remember that as your big sister I only want the best for you. So as you finish up your senior year and look at all the beautiful pictures you've taken at prom, get ready for what lies ahead of you. The day of my graduation party in a card that someone very dear to me wrote "life is what you make it", and although I am very aware that those are Miley Cyrus lyrics I am also certain she meant every word of them. So those are my words to you. Over my years of experiencing college I learned quite a few things:

1. Always remain true to yourself.

Because if you do not know who you are how will you ever be able to correctly introduce yourself to those who will matter in your life?

2. If you believe that you can do it then stick to it.

The worst thing that could ever happen is you changing your path because someone else didn't believe you could do it, even when you knew you could tackle it the whole time.

3. I'm always just a phone call/text message away!

When things start to get a bit rough and you need me please do not hesitate to reach out, I promise to answer, even if that means walking out of class to make sure you are okay. That's what big sisters are for, to be here even when i'm not close I am still here.

As your big sister you both mean the world to me. I mean DUH! If you haven't already guessed my world has revolved around you since the day I found out you existed. That means that everything I have done so far has been to show you that it is possible. I've been so transparent with you two because I want you to know that it is okay to make mistakes, but if I could teach you a lesson through mine then maybe, just maybe you wouldn't make the same mistakes I have.

With much love,

Your big sister Bre