Loss Of A Pet Can Be Unbearable

Losing A Pet Hurts Like Losing A Best Friend

Losing pets can feel heart-breaking; they're our companions, our babies, our best friends.


Growing up, my family always had a dog. As a bunch of animal lovers, this was and still is important to us. Recently, we lost our dog, Lizzy, of ten years, and dealing with the loss has been especially hard.

Pets really become a part of the family and provide immeasurable amounts of love and companionship. You get used to their greeting at the door when you come home, so excited to see you after a long day away. You take care of them; feed them, walk them, bathe them. They become a staple in your everyday life and you look forward to them being there.

That is how my family was with Lizzy. She was such a sweet dog, but she was getting old. We noticed her struggling to get up, being unbalanced on her feet, and crying when she was in pain. However, without fail, she was always there for us. She always forced her body up to come and give us kisses and say hello.

She would even have spurts of "puppy" energy, in which she would play with my dad and run back and forth. Granted, she would slump right down and fall asleep right after, but that love for life was still there. She was still trying.

Somehow, I had a feeling something was going to happen to her when I was away at school. All summer I was afraid she was going to die when I was away. And then I got the fateful call.

Lizzy could no longer walk or even hold herself up. She took a tumble down the stairs and was really hurting. The big tumor on her side, which started as fatty tissue, could have easily turned into something more dangerous. She was in pain all the time and no longer acting like herself. That's when my family made the decision to put an end to her suffering.

I immediately got on the train and was taken to the vet where they were keeping her. My heart flooded with sadness, I didn't think she was going to recognize me or even acknowledge me when I walked into the room. However, they brought her into the exam room and she came right up to me and licked my face. I smile to myself knowing I got that compassionate goodbye from my puppy.

My whole family cried gallons of tears that day. Now, our house is oddly empty without her. Even my cat is wondering where she is and is laying in Lizzy's usual spots. After having a dog in our house since I was born, it feels strange not having that energy there.

I'm sure plenty can relate, and all pet-owners know how much these animals mean to us as humans. Losing a dog, cat, hamster, or fish can hurt pretty badly. Lizzy will always be in my heart, even when she leaves my everyday thoughts. Our pets are still with us after they pass on, even when it feels like there's something missing.

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If You're Having A Ruff Day, The Seawolf Pups Are Here To Cheer You Up

Seawolf Pups are always here to help students at Stony Brook University.


School days aren't so rough when the Stony Brook Seawolf Pups are strutting around campus and brightening up students' days.

Cindy Crowell, 59, who lives in the neighborhood adjacent to Tabler Quad, comes to Stony Brook University's Academic Mall about five times a week to walk her three Havanese dogs, Marley, Indiana, and Lily, who she calls the Seawolf Pups. She's regularly approached by wide-eyed students who get excited to pet her dogs in between classes.

"Most of the students say they like to see them and pet them because they're stressed out and it helps them get less stressed," Crowell said. "It's a very good school and a tough school and I think that it's important for people to just be able to feel like they can say, 'Can I pet your dog?' and I say, 'Of course.'"

Many students tell Crowell that they miss their dogs and sometimes they show her pictures of their family pets.

"Who wouldn't be happier seeing a dog?" Isabelle Wolpert, a sophomore environmental humanities major who has met Crowell and the Seawolf Pups before said, "I miss mine at home a lot so seeing dogs here just makes my day better."

Another student, freshman Erika Franco, said, "I miss my dog. Dogs are so pure and just bring joy and happiness."

Each dog has a different personality, but they are all active and eager to greet people. Marley, named after Bob Marley, is not shy but reserved. Indiana, named after Indiana Jones, is outgoing and loves to run up to people. Lily, named after Lily Potter from the "Harry Potter" books, is shy but gets excited when she can run around without a leash. The dogs love earning "off-leash time" where they can roam freely on campus and not have to worry about too many cars being around.

Crowell meets many new students who are pleasantly surprised to see three dogs on their way to class and she is always glad to see familiar faces.

"I've seen them around a lot of times," Meenakshi Janardhanan, a senior mathematics major, said. "I've seen them for the last year or so and I always pet them."

When the dogs aren't going out for walks, they are either eating, napping, or watching "Game of Thrones."

Crowell grew up near the University of Vermont and, having gotten accustomed to living in a college town, knew that she wanted to settle down near a university. A couple of years after she moved to Long Island in 1987, Crowell started walking her two standard poodles and Doberman Pinscher around Stony Brook University.

Crowell is now apart of Havanese Rescue, a non-profit organization dedicated to rescuing and finding foster and adoptive families for purebred Havanese dogs and Havanese mixes. Crowell has fostered and adopted dogs from the organization.

"We had several fosters in our house that I placed and we kept one who was named Zoey," Crowell said. "Zoey had to be given up by her family when she was 11 and a half. Knowing that they could turn her into a rescue where she would find a good home meant a lot to them."

Crowell wants people to understand where their dogs may be coming from and that between vet bills, food, and grooming, raising a dog can be expensive.

"Owning a dog is the closest thing to having a child," she said. "Dogs need a lot of socialization, exercise, good food, training, and a lot of attention."

For students who are not able to take on the responsibility of having a dog, the Seawolf Pups can serve as their daily dose of dogs on campus.

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