Perfection As The Impossible

Perfection As The Impossible

Imagine a world where you accept you are not perfect.

The mere idea of perfection is as visible as wind itself, yet the desire to be an embodiment of perfection will always exist. One craves the concept of being freed of all flaws through an unattainable goal. The want is there- but the ability to achieve perfection does not exist due to the fact that humans will always error.

If perfection does not exist what goal can be set?

The next best thing to perfection is becoming the absolute best version of oneself. We can learn to overcome our natural tendencies toward jealousy, fear, anger, vanity, or any other inclination toward a self destructing habit in a few ways. One way is through accepting that these temptation will always be present. Another is promising yourself to move forward. Instead of trying to erase the flaw we are given an opportunity. Every time we refuse to be made a slave to our selfish desires we are proving the strength within our own hearts. We are made stronger each time we overcome the trap of humanity. Thus, tasting the closest bite of perfection we can come to as people.

Why should you accept that you are not perfect?

No one is perfect nor will anyone ever be. If we lust after a concept that is indigestible we will turn sour and dissatisfied with who we are today. It is a set back to place a standard upon oneself when it cannot be reached. Holding hands with the importance of acceptance is the need to stop comparing yourself to those around you. Learn to acknowledge where you fall short without holding it against your capabilities. Falling short is okay. Comparing yourself to others is deadly. By accepting yourself and your shortcomings you shoot yourself forward and in its wake you affect all of those around you. You are your best and worst companion.

You are your best and worst companion.

By eliminating social comparison we can focus on the root of our own calamities. It forces us to move forward and to work on our imperfections without the lowering of self-esteem. Recognizing that you are imperfect is the opening of the doors of acceptance. Accepting yourself as both flawed and capable is the fastest way to reach the goal of being the best version of yourself. There is freedom within allowing yourself to be imperfect. Through self- reflection and the process of eliminating the fear of being vulnerable you can achieve much.You will begin to lay down the framework for a perfectly imperfect bridge you have between attaining the impossible and tasting the possible.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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