The Pain Of Losing A Pet

The Pain Of Losing A Pet

They will always be in your heart


Pets are our companions and become a part of our family, whether it is a big or small family. A lot of times most of your life is spent with that pet. For me, I have had my beloved cat since I was 5 years old and named it Scruffy. I am now 21 having to say goodbye to my baby. It is a hard thing to go through. Putting a pet down is a heartbreaking thing but in your heart, you know its what's best for them especially when they are struggling so much. I find it important to be in the room, I know it is hard but you want the last person your pet sees is you and not a stranger.

Pets are amazing. They are loving and don't care who you are because to them you are the best person in the world. They don't judge like the rest of the world. Humans don't deserve a pets love but we are glad they do. It is always terrible that they have such a short life. The best you can do is make sure they have a great one that is full of love. It is important to show your pet's attention because you never know when it can be their last day.

Pets are more capable than what we think. It always seems like they can tell when something is wrong or if you're sad they will come up to you and snuggle up. They live to protect and love their humans, to be there for them whenever they are needed. When you are down they will lift you up or let you cry and soak up their fur. They will play with you and cuddle with you.

Losing those you love will always be the hardest thing a human experiences. It hurts more than physical pain. The lost of a pet hurts because for most of your life you take care of them like they were a child. You raise them, train them and make sure they know they are loved. It sucks because even you can't protect them from old age. You can't protect them from getting sick but you can make sure they are comfortable.

When they pass you have to remind yourself that they aren't suffering anymore. You get to keep them in your memory and in your heart forever which makes it so they never actually leave you. They will always be your baby. To those who have lost a pet, I am sorry for your loss and I hope you find peace in the fact that they have found peace.

To my baby, Scruffy. I will love you forever and miss you very much. You were the best cat a girl could ask for. Your weirdness matched mine and it made so much sense that you were mine. Thank you for always being there and being the loving cat you were. You will always be in my heart and will always be my "babies."

ScruffyCaptured by: Lisa Welch

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Top 10 Cutest Cat Breeds

These cat breeds are super cute and underrated.

It seems that the only breeds anyone can actually recognize are those of dogs, cats really don't get enough recognition. There is just as much of a variety of cat breeds as there are of dog breeds, almost anyway, and they deserve love and recognition as well. So, here are the top 10 cat breeds I've deemed as the absolute cutest!

1. Exotic Persian

Exotic Persian cats are one of the cutest breeds in my opinion. Theses are the squished faced cats. The cats that perpetually look grumpy and disappointed. They're also super high-maintenance and believe you're supposed to cater to their every whim. Which, to be fair, you are.

2. Scottish Fold

Scootish Folds are super adorable because they're very unique. They're ears fold over, making them always appear to be begging you for something. They also always look a little bit sad, which, of course, only makes you love them more.

3. Himalayan

Himalayan cats are just magnificent and so prestigious. These cats are fluffy, deserve the best, and expect nothing but the best.

4. British Shorthair

I'm not sure what it is about these cats that makes them so adorable, but my roommate has tried to describe them as "fat and sassy." - Delaney Pulice. She's not wrong. They're pretty chubby and look like they're just a little bit too good for you. In all honesty, what cat isn't too good for us?

5. Maine Coon

These cats are particularly wonderful because they can be giant. I mean, giant. These cats can grown into the sizes of large dogs, which, of course, if everything we could all ever ask for in a cat. Who wouldn't want a giant cat that could probably double as a pillow?

6. Persian

These cats are only a little bit different from Exotic Persians, but there's a difference. Persians tend to have less squished face than Exotics, but every cat is different. The one above is a Silver Persian. He had to eat his food off of a plate because his flat face couldn't fit in a cat food bowl.

7. Munchkin

These tiny little guys never really grow much. Their legs are perpetually short and stubby, making them the ideal cats, because, if you had a choice, wouldn't you want your cat to be either giant like a Maine Coon or tiny like a Munchkin cat? Of course you would.

8. Siberian

These cats are just generally beautiful. They have long, shiny, fluffy coats and are just pretty cats. Plus, they look super cuddly, like they might purr for hours if you brushed them.

9. British Longhair

Another just simply beautiful cat. When you see those posts online that say "This cat is prettier than I am," yeah, that's these cats. They have long, soft coats as well that they like to keep clean. And as all cats do, they look like they're just a little bit above us and we have to cater to them.

10. Ragdoll

Finally, we have Ragdoll cats. These cats look a bit like fluffier Siamese cats. Which, let's face it, Siamese cats aren't necessarily the cutest. However, if you just add a lot of fluff, because the fluffier the better, they become much cuter.

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An Open Letter To Any Cat Lover

Some days a girl just needs her furry friends to make her heart feel warm and fuzzy.


My family has always had a true passion for animals, but we are especially fond of that special species called felines.

I do not have a single memory of my childhood that does not involve a cat. When I say my family adores these animals, please believe I mean it to the highest degree.

My dad loves cats. My mom loves cats, my sister loves cats, and my brother-in-law just recently became a cat daddy. I mean you have got to understand that this HUGE.

Our love for cats is a generational phenomenon. My grandparents all love cats. My uncles all have cats. My cousins all have cats. One could easily see that we take our love for cats seriously.

Since I have moved out of my parents' house, my love for kitties has only grown. Anytime that I get to go back home, I immediately jump out of the car, because my cats are right outside of my door because they miss me as much I miss them.

I currently have two cats. Tiger, my little old but still sassy cat, and Stuart, who goes by "Stewy" for short and always drools when you pet him. They have my heart I tell ya.

They love to come inside with me and eat treats out of my hand and just enjoy all of the attention. My parents are constantly sending me pictures of them, sometimes without me even asking, because they just know that I utterly adore them.

Tiger and Stuart are special companions for me. They know when I am happy, sad, or tired. I especially love that they curl up with me for naps.

They will meow a lot when I keep getting up to do things and all they want is to be held. They will sit in front of their water bowl until I give them fresh water from the sink (they are treated like royalty if you could not tell). They are sometimes all I need when I come home on the weekends.

I know that I will always have a cat in my life to be a furry companion. Marrying a man that is allergic to cats is simply not an option unless he is willing to compromise and get his allergies taken care of.

If you do not like cats, I completely understand, but please give them a try.

p.s. I am about to go home for spring break and you best believe that my kit-cats are about to be spoiled rotten.

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