How The Outrage Over Brock Turner Can Help Rape Victims

How The Outrage Over Brock Turner Can Help Rape Victims

It's not your fault.

Early last week, the country got a wake-up call when we saw the injustice of rapist Brock Turner's sentence. After raping an unconscious woman behind a dumpster in January 2015, Turner was sentenced to just six months in county jail. People are outraged because of the injustice seen in the courtroom, but also because of how the media first handled the news.

One of the biggest issues surrounding the media is that people seem to be focusing on the fact that Turner is a swimmer. Many headlines say that Turner is a swimmer, rather than a rapist. Here's an example. And another. And in the letter from his victim, she explains how she first found out what actually happened -- how was she found, who raped her and what he said -- in a news article she found while browsing her phone. Below the article, his best swimming times were listed.

Not only did some media outlets react poorly to the news, but how other people reacted was poor. Normally, if a person is found guilty to three felony counts due to rape, such as Turner, they will earn him/herself 14 years of state prison. Yet, Turner earned six months? Part of this is because of Turner's father read to the court. His father wrote the letter, focusing on how Turner's life will be forever altered because of anxiety and depression, and how "20 minutes of action is a steep price to pay for 20 plus years of his life" Alexandra Ozeri tweeted a revised version of the original letter and wrote, "This isn't like the three-second rule for food, rape still counts no matter how many seconds it lasts. This is rape."

One of Brock Turner's childhood friends, Leslie Rasmussen, also wrote a letter to the judge. One of the issues that she mentions that it is okay because they were drunk. Turner blames it on the college's "party culture." So, if I was drunk and someone stole my wallet, it makes it okay, right? No. We can't blame the alcohol, we can only blame the rapist.

This, and six other myths that Rasmussen makes are pointed and debunked by Bustle.

We can see the reaction that people and media show is that how people did not treat the rape correctly. Most of the country is outraged by it and are voicing their opinions on why it's wrong.

I want to make it clear that rape is rape, it doesn't matter if you're drunk or not. It doesn't matter if it lasted seconds or half an hour. It doesn't matter if they are your spouse or a stranger. It doesn't matter if they are well liked or popular. It doesn't matter if they bought you a car and you think you 'owe' it to them. It doesn't matter how you're dressed. It doesn't matter where you are. It doesn't matter what gender the attacker is. It doesn't matter what gender you are.

The only person at fault here is the rapist.

No one else.

Cover Image Credit: Mercury News

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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Why The Idea Of 'No Politics At The Dinner Table' Takes Place And Why We Should Avoid It

When did having a dialogue become so rare?


Why has the art of civilized debate and conversation become unheard of in daily life? Why is it considered impolite to talk politics with coworkers and friends? Expressing ideas and discussing different opinions should not be looked down upon.

I have a few ideas as to why this is our current societal norm.

1. Politics is personal.

Your politics can reveal a lot about who you are. Expressing these (sometimes controversial) opinions may put you in a vulnerable position. It is possible for people to draw unfair conclusions from one viewpoint you hold. This fosters a fear of judgment when it comes to our political beliefs.

Regardless of where you lie on the spectrum of political belief, there is a world of assumption that goes along with any opinion. People have a growing concern that others won't hear them out based on one belief.

As if a single opinion could tell you all that you should know about someone. Do your political opinions reflect who you are as a person? Does it reflect your hobbies? Your past?

The question becomes "are your politics indicative enough of who you are as a person to warrant a complete judgment?"

Personally, I do not think you would even scratch the surface of who I am just from knowing my political identification.

2. People are impolite.

The politics themselves are not impolite. But many people who wield passionate, political opinion act impolite and rude when it comes to those who disagree.

The avoidance of this topic among friends, family, acquaintances and just in general, is out of a desire to 'keep the peace'. Many people have friends who disagree with them and even family who disagree with them. We justify our silence out of a desire to avoid unpleasant situations.

I will offer this: It might even be better to argue with the ones you love and care about, because they already know who you are aside from your politics, and they love you unconditionally (or at least I would hope).

We should be having these unpleasant conversations. And you know what? They don't even need to be unpleasant! Shouldn't we be capable of debating in a civilized manner? Can't we find common ground?

I attribute the loss of political conversation in daily life to these factors. 'Keeping the peace' isn't an excuse. We should be discussing our opinions constantly and we should be discussing them with those who think differently.

Instead of discouraging political conversation, we should be encouraging kindness and understanding. That's how we will avoid the unpleasantness that these conversations sometimes bring.

By avoiding them altogether, we are doing our youth a disservice because they are not being exposed to government, law, and politics, and they are not learning to deal with people and ideas that they don't agree with.

Next Thanksgiving, talk politics at the table.

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