Everyone has continued to tell Owen and I to enjoy our "First Christmas together".
We have adorable ornaments that family and friends have given us that say, "Our First Christmas as Mr. & Mrs."
Going into our first big holiday together, it doesn't feel as big as I expected it would.
We put up our first tree, decorated our house, wrapped presents, made cookies...
But, after all, while it is another mile marker we are passing, we are doing it together.
I think that's what makes it special, but not so special it trumps the other 364 days we spend together.
Owen and I agreed that we don't need any gifts; we don't need to buy each other anything. What we really want is to spend time together, talking or cooking or watching TV. We also want to put the money we would have spent towards each other on a trip—somewhere big.
I find myself, this Christmas, looking around me more than ever and being thankful for what I have instead of wishing for what I don't have.
Owen has always been a simple man that doesn't require much. I'd like to say the same for myself. Rather than making a mile long list of things we need or desperately want, we decided to focus on each other this Christmas.
For other married couple who are celebrating their "First Christmas as Mr. & Mrs.," enjoy this milestone, but don't let it become such a huge deal that it trumps what really matters: the love that you share.



















