Dear Best Friend's Boyfriend/ Boy toy/ Lover/ Whoever you may be,
From the start I hated you but I am suppose too. I am suppose to be wary of you, I am suppose to doubt your intentions. I have this guard up because I see how much my best friend cares about you. If I don't have my guard up for her then she might end up getting hurt. She is so wrapped up in your world and you, that she can't see through your bullshit at times. She's like my sister, she's the one who's been there for me since day one. You are just a road bump along this journey. I know this may sound negative and that I will never like you, but for now you're just a boy that I keep a watchful eye on. I listen to what everyone says about you to make sure there is no funny business going on. I make sure you are being faithful to the one person who means the most to me. I would never forgive you if you hurt her. I would probably be that psycho friend that plans ways to dispose of you, but in reality who doesn't do this for their best friend.
I know you two have to figure things out on your own. Don't worry though I'll voice my opinion and she will take it all to heart. I came first in her world, don't you forget it. You guys may have been together for years now but I don't care. I'm still as protective and observant than the first day I met you. Yes, we have reached that point where I consider you a friend, your finally starting to grow on me. You have some good qualities don't get me wrong but in the back of my mind I will always think she deserves better. In my mind she deserves a Prince Charming or Zac Efron looking kind of man. Someone who will sweep her off her feet, someone who will put her first no matter what the circumstances. Yes, I see you trying to succeed at that. I like the effort I see, but then I see you making her upset or even cry. You automatically just lost points with me yet again. Trust me, you don't want to get down to zero.
I just hope you know that I will always be there for her. Even when you start to consume her life and priorities. I will still be there for her when you decide you don't want to be with her anymore. She's my best friend and if that means I start to become second in her life until she realizes what she wants to do with you, I will forgive her. Everyone needs to live a little and learn a lot about relationships before we consider ourselves marriage ready. If that means you're a learning stop along the way that's okay, because she will always have me no matter what. Just watch yourself, whoever you may be. Best friends will always be crazier, you have us to fear.
Sincerely,
The Crazy Best Friend
