An Open Letter To The Single Mom
Start writing a post
Relationships

An Open Letter To The Single Mom

Thank you for being both the mom and dad in my life.

1596
An Open Letter To The Single Mom
https://www.pexels.com/photo/monochrome-photo-of-woman-carrying-her-child-2015881/

I know you think that you are doing everything wrong, but you are doing everything right. You are not only being my mother, but you are also being my father. When I needed someone to play catch with you grabbed a glove, when I needed a home cooked meal five nights a week you provided. When we were tight on money, you picked up those extra shifts so I could go on that field trip.

I know sometimes you feel like the world is upside down and you're not raising me right. But look at me, I would not be where I am right now without you being my backbone, my biggest supporter, the best person in my life.

I owe you everything I have in life. Not only did you physically give me life, but you gave me a life worth living. You stayed when a dad left, you sacrificed without any recognition. You cried yourself to sleep many nights while waking up in the morning with a smile to give me.

You were always there for me, and I was always there for you. The bond that grew is untouchable and unshakeable. We helped each other grow and both helped each other become strong in our own ways. Even though all the fights and disagreements, your love for me shined through the darkest days.

You're allowed to take a break now. You got me to college, and while I still need to call you daily to make sure I'm doing my laundry right, you got me here. While it takes a village to raise a child, you personally raised me to be the person I am today. While I will always need you, you can now sit back and breath because you deserve that.

Mom, you also deserve the world. You made every decision around me and for me. You always put me first when some of the world wanted to put you last. I never went without, even if that meant you would have to. I had a warm bed, a roof over my head, and a mother who loved me unconditionally.

I want you to know that you're a superhero. Single moms are a different bred. You did the work of two while never making me think I was lacking anything. You protected me from the hurt of the world and everyone in it. You let me make my own decisions and gave me my independence when needed. You knew I would always make the right choices because you guided me to be the best person I could be.

You have been hated on from time to time for how you chose to raise me. Not everyone understood how a single parent household worked, but that did not stop you or discourage you from keeping your head up and moving forward.

Thank you again for everything. I will never be able to thank you enough. Thank you for dealing with my teenage attitude. Thank you for dealing with my high school drama. Thank you for driving me to the movies, the mall, my softball games. Thank you for letting me cry on your shoulder over my first heartbreak. Thank you for cheering on all my accomplishments. Thank you for being the best mother a child could have.

Report this Content
This article has not been reviewed by Odyssey HQ and solely reflects the ideas and opinions of the creator.
​a woman sitting at a table having a coffee
nappy.co

I can't say "thank you" enough to express how grateful I am for you coming into my life. You have made such a huge impact on my life. I would not be the person I am today without you and I know that you will keep inspiring me to become an even better version of myself.

Keep Reading...Show less
Student Life

Waitlisted for a College Class? Here's What to Do!

Dealing with the inevitable realities of college life.

75121
college students waiting in a long line in the hallway
StableDiffusion

Course registration at college can be a big hassle and is almost never talked about. Classes you want to take fill up before you get a chance to register. You might change your mind about a class you want to take and must struggle to find another class to fit in the same time period. You also have to make sure no classes clash by time. Like I said, it's a big hassle.

This semester, I was waitlisted for two classes. Most people in this situation, especially first years, freak out because they don't know what to do. Here is what you should do when this happens.

Keep Reading...Show less
a man and a woman sitting on the beach in front of the sunset

Whether you met your new love interest online, through mutual friends, or another way entirely, you'll definitely want to know what you're getting into. I mean, really, what's the point in entering a relationship with someone if you don't know whether or not you're compatible on a very basic level?

Consider these 21 questions to ask in the talking stage when getting to know that new guy or girl you just started talking to:

Keep Reading...Show less
Lifestyle

Challah vs. Easter Bread: A Delicious Dilemma

Is there really such a difference in Challah bread or Easter Bread?

47013
loaves of challah and easter bread stacked up aside each other, an abundance of food in baskets
StableDiffusion

Ever since I could remember, it was a treat to receive Easter Bread made by my grandmother. We would only have it once a year and the wait was excruciating. Now that my grandmother has gotten older, she has stopped baking a lot of her recipes that require a lot of hand usage--her traditional Italian baking means no machines. So for the past few years, I have missed enjoying my Easter Bread.

Keep Reading...Show less
Adulting

Unlocking Lake People's Secrets: 15 Must-Knows!

There's no other place you'd rather be in the summer.

977549
Group of joyful friends sitting in a boat
Haley Harvey

The people that spend their summers at the lake are a unique group of people.

Whether you grew up going to the lake, have only recently started going, or have only been once or twice, you know it takes a certain kind of person to be a lake person. To the long-time lake people, the lake holds a special place in your heart, no matter how dirty the water may look.

Keep Reading...Show less

Subscribe to Our Newsletter

Facebook Comments